wondering_girl Posted September 15, 2009 Posted September 15, 2009 hi guys, need some opinion on something.. my bf and i have been together for almost 4 years, and the whole time when we get into an argument, i was usually the one running back saying "sorry", but recently, we had a petty argument simply misplacing something and i called him out on his behavior, to why he was acting like this.. anyhow, we met for dinner to "talk" and i addressed everything that's been bottling up, during our fight this time, we did not speak to each other for 2 1/2 weeks, the way he deal with things too is silent treatment, which makes matters worse.. i addressed everything on how he hurt me and i have never done this before.. the whole time he just kinda stared at me for a while and barely said anything except a couple of words and saying eat.. and then towards the end he's like, guess i'm not ready to talk, it's like i threw him off of what he expected, since i always cry but now i didn't.... last thing i told him was.. well, when you're ready to talk let me know.. i feel like i don't know what to expect, a part of me expects that he'll realize what he did was wrong, another part thinks he just wants to break it instead of him breaking it with me, and why would he prolong it? it's sad that the first time i called him out on his rude behavior, he just disappeared... i feel like he doesn't want to fix it anymore since he's prolonging it.. or maybe something else is going on with his life? he's so hard to talk to... thoughts?
ashleigh422 Posted September 15, 2009 Posted September 15, 2009 You seem to have the feelig that something is up. I think you should trust your instinct, don't apoligize if you didnt' do anything wrong and let him have space to work through his feelings.
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