freckles3131 Posted September 15, 2009 Posted September 15, 2009 Scenario: My boyfriend has a guy friend who is in a relationship. I just met this girl once about a month ago. (the 4 of us went out to dinner) Fast forward to last weekend. We are all at a function and they needed someone to run the t-shirt stand etc..I offered to run it and she offered to help. Now mind you I just met this girl once and for a few short hours. So we are selling shirts and during the day is making comments to me about my b.f. like "He looks so hot in that truck". He looks so hot w/his hat on backwards, or "That's what I like about him, how he..." This girl, from what I can tell is not the brightest bulb, doesn't have much to offer a guy in the brains/personalilty dept, she is a hottie, but I don't worry about my man straying..so I reply with comments like, " Yeah, he does look hot, and that's what I love about him etc.." (thinking to myself, Jeez this chick is pretty brazen to have JUST met me and be all "I think your man is hot" if it were one of my best buds or even someone I knew a little better, no biggie...but, I just met her one other time. We decide after a long day to have a few beers. Nothing to wild, just a few and we shoot the ****. End of that part of the story.... Then....next weekend it was suppose to be a guys day up at the racetrack. I told my guy, "go have fun with the boys" and he did. He comes home and tells me that this girl ended up going as his buddy is pussy whipped and let her come along (much to the other 4 guys dismay as it was a guys day) He then says, he and she were talking about how her and I sold a ton of t-shirts and he says, "so that's cool you guys sold alot" and she says, "Yeah, but boy Jasmine sure acts "different" when she drinks" to which he told me he didn't have a reply to cuz it was like "um, okay" So my question to you is...what is the deal with this gal? Also do I...say something to her next time I see her (which might be this weekend at a function) like, "Oooh, I better not have a beer because I might act "different" My thought is she is trying to make me look bad in his eyes so she can work it, or is she just a ditz with no social skills and doesn't have much to add to the convo? I will also say that I had all of 3 beers to her 6 and she was waaaay buzzy/flirty girl to my slightly outgoing self. so talk about calling the kettle black! And...when I initially asked my bf what his response was he said I said "Tell me about it" but then laughed and said, "No I didnt say that..." and chuckled. So there are two issues: 1) what is this girlie up to? 2) should I inquire further as to my bf's response? I mean shouldn't he have said something in my defense? So do I dig deeper or leave it alone. Again, not worried about him and her as we have been happy together for 6 years now and he is a good man.
Paragon Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 She's clearly interested in him. He'll just have to make sure he doesn't foster putting himself in bad situations with her. As for digging deeper, it won't yield anything worth it at this point. Only time will tell how the situation progresses.
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