wooha Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 Its been awhile, but I'm back. I went nc for 3 months, and it worked very well. I felt great, and was on with my life. Then... I got the call, 4 of them. I called back the next day and it was I love you, want you back, etc. I gave in, and here I am contemplating another break up 4 months later. All I wanted for quite some time was another chance, I got it, and its not so great. I love her vm, but it'll never change people. Move on, and know you are a great person and they(dumpers) are for the most part SH*T. They will revert back to the same ol crap, and make you miserable, and you dont want to have to break up again, cause its gonna suck. I know everyone here has been hurt, so please listen to me. It wont be AS bad this go round, but I know I've been set back. NC!
NopeNah Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 Yes, Sir!! I just went through this same thing myself last week. It's NO where near the pain of being blindsided..but, it still sucks! Good luck!
trueblue72ny Posted September 16, 2009 Posted September 16, 2009 All I wanted for quite some time was another chance, I got it, and its not so great. I love her vm, but it'll never change people. Move on, and know you are a great person and they(dumpers) are for the most part SH*T. They will revert back to the same ol crap, and make you miserable, and you dont want to have to break up again, cause its gonna suck. I know everyone here has been hurt, so please listen to me. It wont be AS bad this go round, but I know I've been set back. NC! that seems true. i wanted mine back too. got my chance, sorta (friends with benefits). and a month into it, it seems she may already be reverting back to the same ol, same ol - not sure yet - just seeing familiar patterns already. i would also suggest to anyone out there - even if you have met someone you are totally head over heels with, in love with, planning on spending your life together - do yourself a favor and dont forget your friends while you are dating someone!!!!! dont become a stranger to everyone you know over one person!!!!!
JP2009 Posted September 16, 2009 Posted September 16, 2009 that seems true. i wanted mine back too. got my chance, sorta (friends with benefits). and a month into it, it seems she may already be reverting back to the same ol, same ol - not sure yet - just seeing familiar patterns already. i would also suggest to anyone out there - even if you have met someone you are totally head over heels with, in love with, planning on spending your life together - do yourself a favor and dont forget your friends while you are dating someone!!!!! dont become a stranger to everyone you know over one person!!!!! I didn't forget about my freinds, I kept them very much in my life when I was dating my ex. Ultimately that is what broke us up. I'm sorry but I need friends in my life. She was always invited to everything I did. Her loss. My friends kick ass.
trueblue72ny Posted September 16, 2009 Posted September 16, 2009 I didn't forget about my freinds, I kept them very much in my life when I was dating my ex. Ultimately that is what broke us up. I'm sorry but I need friends in my life. She was always invited to everything I did. Her loss. My friends kick ass. thats funny. i always invite mine out too. she shows little interest. and i keep thinking im not going to make the same mistake twice. my friends are great & i totally need them in my life!
daphne Posted September 16, 2009 Posted September 16, 2009 hmm. Kinda sounds like a case of "I want you back so I can be the one to end it."
Author wooha Posted September 20, 2009 Author Posted September 20, 2009 Could be, but if that makes it easier for me this time so be it. I went through the worst time in my life and she did'nt care, so let her have a taste this time.
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