johnnybrokenheart Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 around may 2008 i relied heavily on this site to get me through a 'thing'. My gf of 18 months had decided to 'take a break'. everything in me said she was cheating..i tried to deny the truth to myself, even though i had all the evidence and she eventually admitted to breaking up with me to see him, but never confessed to cheating.. anyway, i was looking for my posts but it seems that there is a 'dead spot' of about a month from that period on the forums. i wanted to thank everyone here for getting me through that phase. I can't say it was unscathed, i did some stupid things, drank too much, slept with alot of women i shouldn't have. Today i find myself dating someone i've been interested in for years. she left her husband about the same time i started my ordeal. We finally went on a 'date' on june 1st of this year and have been inseparable since then. some advice from a 'survivor'... NC is the way to go...hard as it is..its the way to do things. DON'T believe the BS stories DON'T get self destructive DON'T substitute bad sex with the wrong people for the love you think you've lost. I know, i'm 44 i've been here before and this time, i actually regret sleeping with all those women and am ashamed of myself for it. Guys....read the book 'No more mr nice guy"..you'll be glad you did.
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