limitless Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 So there is this girl that I met from rock climbing. She is always interested in climbing with me. The first time I climbed with her, I am a bit flirty but I am a bit flirty with all girls. She mentioned she had a boyfriend. Now I have climbed with her a number of times over the course of two months or so. She is always trying to find out if I am going and she asks if I want to climb with her. I told her at one point that I went climbing on Friday night and she was surprised and said to me, "if you go on Friday let me know cause I want to go." I am thinking if she has a boyfriend, why on Earth would she ask me to climb with her on a Friday night. Shouldn't she be hanging out with her boyfriend on a friday night?? So I haven't really tried asking her out because the first time I met her, she said she had a boyfriend who also climbs if I remember correctly however I have never met him. Not sure how to handle this situation. Any advice? Should I just not worry about the boyfriend and just ask her out?
Pedigree Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 Either she wants to swap from her boyfriend to you or she just sees you as a friend with the same hobby. Ask her to go on Friday and watch how she behaves.
carhill Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 BF creates safety zone for feeding of ego. Focus on the climbing and remain indifferent to the rest. If she questions you, merely tell her you find her intriguing but unavailable due to her relationship. Happy to climb with her though. Have her invite her BF along
Enema Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 Tell her you would have, but you took a date. Her reaction should be interesting.
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