Kristy19 Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 I met this guy in the military and we really like each other. There are a few hurdles like the fact that he's 3 hours away from me and if we start to date he wouldn't get to see me all the time. I told him I know that and it comes with the job. Well we've gotten really close and he's told me that he falls harder and harder for me everyday. He wanted to visit me but even before things were getting into relationship level I had told him that September was a really busy month for me and things usually don't calm down til October. He told he understood that and that I would just have to set a date and let him know. Well I finally have a free weekend but every time I call him he doesn't pick up and if does he sounds like he doesn't want to talk to me at all. This past weekend I had a friend's wedding and the last time we talked he said that he doesn't want to talk on the phone for 3 months and not meet me. I understand that and I don't want that either. He's also said that every time he has a free weekend I come up with reasons to why I can't see him. I've told him that everything that's been going on this month was planned long before we started talking especially the two wedding I'm in. I just can't cancel on my responsibilities. Ever since then I feel like he's avoiding me. I tried calling him yesterday night and today and when I called him yesterday his phone rang 3 times then said call ended he never picked up though so that leaves me thinking that he rejected my call. I don't know what to do about this situation so can anyone give me advice on what to do about it?
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