clv0116 Posted September 18, 2009 Posted September 18, 2009 I did not tell you anything. I don't know why you take this so personally. I've stated what my experience has been. That is all. I suspect your tragic personal experiences have skewed your viewpoint on this matter. The woman in the video is clearly female and not bad looking at all. My GF, in my opinion, looks clearly female as well. While she's not a sagging mass of lard, her hips are much wider than her waist and she has a nice (in my opinion) rack, B cup I believe, which is pretty appropriate looking on a woman with a small build. She is quite small but I don't think dating a petite woman makes anyone a closet pedo. Saying she looks prepubescent simply because she is small and takes care of herself is sort of silly.
Author shadowplay Posted September 18, 2009 Author Posted September 18, 2009 I suspect your tragic personal experiences have skewed your viewpoint on this matter. The woman in the video is clearly female and not bad looking at all. My GF, in my opinion, looks clearly female as well. While she's not a sagging mass of lard, her hips are much wider than her waist and she has a nice (in my opinion) rack, B cup I believe, which is pretty appropriate looking on a woman with a small build. She is quite small but I don't think dating a petite woman makes anyone a closet pedo. Saying she looks prepubescent simply because she is small and takes care of herself is sort of silly. How old is your gf? I don't think she looks prepubescent, she has a nice figure. But she does look young (at least from the back). Is she Asian? Asian women tend to have smaller frames. Btw, if you or she thinks she needs to lose any weight you're crazy. Any thinner and she'd be less than ideal. Her weight looks great to me.
clv0116 Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 How old is your gf? I don't think she looks prepubescent, she has a nice figure. But she does look young (at least from the back). She could be college-aged or even high school. Btw, if you or she thinks she needs to lose any weight you're crazy. Any thinner, and she'd be less than ideal. She's in her mid-20s, and I don't think she needs to lose weight, she's just concerned because she's put some on but I think she looks just dandy and I've told her so. She's not crazy, I think she's concerned more about the sudden gain more than the amount, which might be a fair concern. I hope she won't put on too much more weight too soon but I think she looks quite nice as she is. TBF is correct to say that compared to the woman in the OP video my GF is not as muscular but then I'm not looking specifically for a physically strong woman, I don't plan to put her out harvesting crops or anything.
Jersey Shortie Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 Why was GF in quotes anyway, as "gf" Because I question the picture. It doesn't look like a hotel room. Or at least any kind of hotel I have ever stayed in. Maybe I just stayed in better ones. I don't know. Why do you keep ignoring my request to post a picture of yourself? TBF is correct to say that compared to the woman in the OP video my GF is not as muscular but then I'm not looking specifically for a physically strong woman, I don't plan to put her out harvesting crops or anything. Muscle tone is important in burning fat. The women in the video doesn't look like she is about to go harvesting crops. You have some very deep seeded insecurities with yourself as a man. You enjoy putting women down quite often. I feel bad for your gf beacuse I suspect as she gets older you will treat her equally dishumanly.
burning 4 revenge Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 That's the weirdest Hotel room I ever saw. It looks like the back of a stage area. Especially with that little sign in the upper right corner. I have never seen that in any hotel room. Why can't you post a picture of yourself? Lets see how you look for a middle aged man. No way Im aging poorly How did you get a hold of that picture of the hotel?
clv0116 Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 Well I only posted this because someone said I was a closet pedophile who liked women with bodies like a young boy, simply because I found the woman in the video a bit stout for my taste. I think you and I agree the young lady I posted a picture of doesn't look like anything but a pretty young woman. Since I'm a full grown adult I didn't need to report this personal attack to the mods like some crybaby little b*tches around here have done in the past, but did feel that I should defend myself and my girl. EDIT: Bolded on topic-ness Because I question the picture. It doesn't look like a hotel room. Or at least any kind of hotel I have ever stayed in. Maybe I just stayed in better ones. I don't know. Probably that's it i guess, I don't spend a ton on expensive rooms in general, and I don't remember precisely which hotel this was, I could probably look at the date and sort it out but we stayed in a variety of places over the last month. Unless you've visited South East Asia you probably have never been in a room like this I suppose. They use the term "Air Con" to describe air conditioning and that is what the legible part of the upper note says, something about "please turn off the air con". I'm not sure what you mean by 'question the picture'; you think I've Photoshopped it? What would I alter and why would I do that? I agree, she's uber hot but come on, there are a lot of really hot women out there. Her looks are not what roped me in, they just provided the initial attraction. It's sort of flattering to the Ms that you think she's a hired model or been Photoshopped though - I'm getting lucky tonight!
clv0116 Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 Muscle tone is important in burning fat. The women in the video doesn't look like she is about to go harvesting crops. Muscle MASS is important in burning CALORIES. The woman in the video is not bad looking, I never said she was, just that she's a bit husky for my taste but that she looks good for her age.
Jersey Shortie Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 I'm not sure what you mean by 'question the picture'; you think I've Photoshopped it? What would I alter and why would I do that? I agree, she's uber hot but come on, there are a lot of really hot women out there. Her looks are not what roped me in, they just provided the initial attraction. It's sort of flattering to the Ms that you think she's a hired model or been Photoshopped though - I'm getting lucky tonight! LOL. What are you agreeing to? Where did say I thought she was uber-hot? And no, I don't question the picture because I think she is uber-hot. I think she looks like she could be attractive. She looks like a normal average attractive person (but with a very tacky outfit). Her body isn't what I would call "uber-hot" but she isn't unattractive either clearly. And since we can't see her face, can't make that claim either. I don't think she looks like she could be a model either. I was thinking more along the lines that you took a picture of a girl that didn't know what you were doing or you found that picture from some else or online and passed it off as your own. Do you have another picture of her from behind? Again, Why are you so shy about posting a picture of yourself? You continue to ignore the request but you were very ready to post a picture of someone else.
clv0116 Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 I was thinking more along the lines that you took a picture of a girl that didn't know what you were doing or you found that picture from some else or online and passed it off as your own. Do you have another picture of her from behind? As I said, generally I shoot her to include her face, but I took a few in a row on this occasion - the light was bad as you can see from the high ISO I had to use. Here is one more and also one where I've beheaded her in a swim dress. But this is immaterial, the reason I've posted this is as an example of what I find attractive as opposed to the much more robust dancer chick in the video. Just trying to stay on topic. If I was 'with' the dancer chick I'd be OK as long as the relationship was good but I'd never date her as a new relationship now at her age.
CaliGuy Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 I think she looks fine, you all need to stop being so critical. Unless you're perfect (and none of us are, we all have flaws), there should be no judgement here.
clv0116 Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 I was thinking more along the lines that you took a picture of a girl that didn't know what you were doing or you found that picture from some else or online and passed it off as your own. Do you have another picture of her from behind? I have to admit, the more I think about this the funnier it gets. Apparently all this time I've been talking about the girl(s at one time) I've been dating you've been upset over my multi-dating activities AND not believing me at the same time? I'm reasonably sure only a woman could reconcile those mutually exclusive theories and believe both to be true. Or maybe you expected that I really was dating fat hags? I think she looks fine, you all need to stop being so critical. Unless you're perfect (and none of us are, we all have flaws), there should be no judgement here. Well since no one is perfect nothing should ever be judged. Would you date the woman in the video if you had a chance?
Jersey Shortie Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 Apparently all this time I've been talking about the girl(s at one time) I've been dating you've been upset over my multi-dating activities AND not believing me at the same time? I'm reasonably sure only a woman could reconcile those mutually exclusive theories and believe both to be true. Or maybe you expected that I really was dating fat hags? I guess there is just something I find off the mark with you and insincere. I still doubt the pictures. Again, where is there a picture of you we can see? Why do you always ignore this request? Is there something you are hiding? You are pretty eager to show off your "gf".
clv0116 Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 I guess there is just something I find off the mark with you and insincere. I still doubt the pictures. Shocking that you would find a man insincere. Well they are what they are but for the purposes of the on topic part of this discussion we can simply agree they are an example of a woman I find very attractive and that's all that matters. This was in the interests of letting people decide if my tastes are somehow perverse and also to illustrate why *I* feel the video chick is stout. If you want more "proof" I guess I can oblige you a little via the PM system.
CaliGuy Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 Well since no one is perfect nothing should ever be judged. Would you date the woman in the video if you had a chance? I don't know anything about her. It's not all about looks with me. I know a lot of people think they know me better than I know myself, but I've dated some of the hottest women around and gotten bored. I need substance, intelligence, good wit -- someone I can hang around with all the time and not be bored. A challenge, so to speak. If all that matters was looks I'd have been married years ago.
clv0116 Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 I don't know anything about her. It's not all about looks with me. Sure of course, but the question is does she look good enough for you to consider dating her? For me, her looks disqualify her from further consideration so I don't NEED to waste time learning any more about her as far as dating potential goes. Now if my circumstances changed and I wasn't able to get chicks I consider hotter, I might lower my standards but that's not presently the case.
Author shadowplay Posted September 20, 2009 Author Posted September 20, 2009 Sure of course, but the question is does she look good enough for you to consider dating her? For me, her looks disqualify her from further consideration so I don't NEED to waste time learning any more about her as far as dating potential goes. Now if my circumstances changed and I wasn't able to get chicks I consider hotter, I might lower my standards but that's not presently the case. how old are you?
grogster Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 She's a hottie with a great bod and sinuous moves: a strong, healthy looking woman. Most of her critics are probably young, inexperienced, pale, pimply guys whose best friend is their right hand.
CaliGuy Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 Sure of course, but the question is does she look good enough for you to consider dating her? For me, her looks disqualify her from further consideration so I don't NEED to waste time learning any more about her as far as dating potential goes. Now if my circumstances changed and I wasn't able to get chicks I consider hotter, I might lower my standards but that's not presently the case. Again, I can't tell you that. I don't judge people based on looks. I can't say without TALKING to her whether I would consider asking her out. There have been women I have gone out with that some people scratched their heads about. It wasn't all about looks and I think if you only qualify someone based on looks alone then you will have a hard time finding the right one. Personality, confidence, sense of humor, a good heart -- these things I need to generate the kind of attraction that leads to love.
sally4sara Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OcCQwImNd3c&NR=1 Usually, I'm pretty dismissive of dumb comments people make on the internet, but somehow reading the comments to this video hit a nerve. I couldn't believe all the responses about her "fat" body and how old she looks. This is why many women are insecure. Sure, she could stand to lose a few pounds, but to me her body looks great for her age. She doesn't even have a trace of cellulite. Also, she doesn't look that old to me. What is she, late thirties, early forties, tops? Do men consider this over the hill? It makes me feel like even if I continue to take care of my body and stay fit as I age, that won't be good enough. I'm trying to figure out where the OP asks anyone if they would date the woman in the video......... It seems a bit egocentric to assume that to be the premise of the OP.
Trialbyfire Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 I do find any "fat" comments, to be insulting and inaccurate to the woman in the clip, since she's far from "fat". She's toned, not one bit of cellulite showing. She's also not ugly or unattractive. If her frame is too stocky for anyone's tastes, that's okay too. If her frame is too small for anyone's tastes, that's okay too. If the way she's put herself together, looks ridiculous to some people, that's okay too. As it's also okay that some find the way she's put herself together, as acceptable.
clv0116 Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 how old are you? I'm probably about the same age she is. I'm curious why that matters.
clv0116 Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 I do find any "fat" comments, to be insulting and inaccurate to the woman in the clip ... If you look at the way her ass and legs jiggle or the way her upper thighs pooch out from the elastic of her leotard it's indicative to me that she's got a fairly liberal coating of fat on her. Not excessive but she's far from being in danger of being too lean for health. She's also quite muscular looking.
Trialbyfire Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 If you look at the way her ass and legs jiggle or the way her upper thighs pooch out from the elastic of her leotard it's indicative to me that she's got a fairly liberal coating of fat on her. Not excessive but she's far from being in danger of being too lean for health. She's also quite muscular looking.Take a good, hard look at your girlfriend. While she's small framed, she also has quite a bit of "fat" on her arse. If she were to do the same dance moves as the woman in the clip, she would jiggle far worse. I'm guessing that she's fat too? Refer to health guides about what's fat and what's not. That she's got bigger muscles than your preference is okay. Based on how you've described yourself in the past, I could call you fat too, based on my preferences for men. So, how does this make it true? Think about it.
clv0116 Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 Take a good, hard look at your girlfriend. While she's small framed, she also has quite a bit of "fat" on her arse. Absolutely and if you look up the thread I've said so. Thing is that the colloquial use of the word fat in this context generally implies content AND size. My GF is slim whereas this woman is bulky. Neither one is super lean. I'm not trying to insult, I'm trying to be descriptive.
angie2443 Posted September 20, 2009 Posted September 20, 2009 I'm trying to figure out where the OP asks anyone if they would date the woman in the video......... It seems a bit egocentric to assume that to be the premise of the OP. Certain posters (or maybe it's just one) on this thread find it important to inform others here, on LS, of their dating preferences. They do this quite often. I have no idea why.
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