woopster638 Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 ok im goin to make this quick as possible .i have known this girl 4 like 3 months .been hanging out with her and talkin on the phone for awhile .got along pretty good .when i first started hanging out with her,my aim was just to get laid,but as i get 2 know her better......i started to kinda fall 4 her .now i can't stop thinking abt her .i don't know if im too deep in the friend zone or what .we flirted a few times(but she is naturally flirty from wat i heard) .and now i really want 2 be more than friends any advice on what shud i do?
SoulSearch_CO Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 Seems obvious to me. "Hey, ______, want to go out on a DATE?" And I'd be sure to use the word DATE, or she may think you wanna hang out as buddies. Her response should tell you something.
Author woopster638 Posted September 14, 2009 Author Posted September 14, 2009 the funny thing is dat,i wen to 2 official dates with her,at the first date i tried 4 the kiss but didn't work out,on the second date we had real fun but i didnt tried 4 anything because i wanted to take my time......but after dat last date,we wud just call each other to just hang out as friends.. btw she had just came out of a 3yr relationship like 3 months ago we would just talk for hrs on the phone abt anything and i feel comfortable around her and probably thats why im fallin for her............and she has alot of guy friends and guys are always after her. the question is........"do she like me more than a friend?" lol
SoulSearch_CO Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 Nobody here would know that. First off, more details about how she treats you would be helpful. Also - does she talk about other dates she's had or other guys she's interested in with you? Does she treat you more like a girlfriend in that respect (using you as a sounding board)? When you say she's "flirty," what exactly does she do? And you could break the "hang as buddies" by saying, "Hey, I'd really like to take you out on an official date." Make it a romantic evening, try to close it with a kiss...you'll have your answer.
Author woopster638 Posted September 14, 2009 Author Posted September 14, 2009 well.....every now and then we both talk about past relations and daily interactions with d opposite sex,but we mainly talk about anything and everythin and sometimes abt wat we want in a relationship and wat turns us on sexually and socially. flirting...some touchin on d legs etc btw she introduced me to her family and some friends too,for the most part she treats me like a close friend wen we are around others,but a lil minor flirting wen we are alone. for the past week i have been minimising contact wit her to ensure dat i don't fall into the friendzone if im not too late already lol i been plannin to express my like for her asap wen the time is rite but dont no if it is the rite and smart move at dis moment
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