Broke N/C DAM IT

[sickdog55]

She rang me yesterday after 3 weeks of N/c, Don't ask me why i

answered the call but anway she was all happy and stuff and said can we catch up i said i was busy at the moment but silly me went over there anyways.... i stayed at her house for about 10 minutes, i acted calm and happy and was mostly talking to her mum the whole time, while she was in the background just staring at me, then she would turn away when i looked at her, they were both shocked on how much weight ive lost too, i feel and look pretty good now.... anyways she told me her boyfriend had moved out of her house...I think there still together, But im not sure why he moved out though .... cause i thought they were getting along fine with each other..... i just cant get it why the hell she still needs to contact me if she is so in love with this new guy.... maybe im just a saftey net, im not sure... what do i do guys, i think i will go back to no contact????

[Exit]

Yup, go back to No Contact and wait for more from her. You don't need anything to do with her until she says this guy is out of her life and she realized you're the one.

 

Safety net, or a source of comfort, that might be exactly why she contacted you. Her BF moved out, maybe she needed someone to lean on, someone to pay her some attention. Don't be there for her.

[sickdog55]

Thanks Exit words of wisdom from you mate.

[mr heartbroken]

hey, my ex more or less done the same thing. I still dont know why she got intouch with me.. I dont think it was for the reasons she said it was. keep the n/c dont wait around on her. I have waited for about six months NOT anymore. i think i have seen i side in her that i thought i would never see. I know she has seen i side in me that isnt that nice anymore. Is she really that good???? move on my friend. find someone that really deserves to have your attention and not just want it when they are feeling needy.