zilverenvlinder Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 Been with BF for about 9 - 10 months. He is an avid pot smoker, which doesn't bother me at all, except for this... We have sex about once or twice a week. Ever since we started dating, about 50 percent of the time he has erectile issues. I don't know if this has anything to do with weed, but it might. Or it could be me, I don't know. After about 5-10 minutes it just goes limp! and that's that, and it can't be helped. The last two nights we had no problem with this, but I noticed this time he turned off the TV so there was no light in the room. Maybe I'm just paranoid, but he has a much nicer body than me comparatively even though I don't think I'm too bad looking, so the paranoid part of me thinks it's me, and the logical part of me thinks it's weed dick. Yesterday also he told me how cute I was, then he said I was "the cutest girl on earth" followed by "and even if there are girls almost as cute as you, you're the nicest and coolest." Which kind of struck me as odd. Oh, great, I'm nice and cool and cute, but not hot or sexy. I don't know what the deal is but I was hoping someone here could help me. <3 z
Trialbyfire Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 MJ not only reduces sexual drive in men, it also decreases sperm production. It causes people to easily lose focus, which, when you think about sex, it has much to do with the intensity of feeling, both physically and mentally.
Author zilverenvlinder Posted September 14, 2009 Author Posted September 14, 2009 LOL thanks for that Tbf! I hope its just the mj.
Trialbyfire Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 Believe it. MJ isn't as innocent as it pretends to be. Limp dick is no laughing matter!
Author zilverenvlinder Posted September 14, 2009 Author Posted September 14, 2009 Hell no it is not ! :-) It is a serious matter that can make a girl turn to pornos!
CLC2008 Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 I think this is more to do with the excessive marijuana usage perhaps. http://www.doctorslounge.com/fertility/forums/backup/topic-13887.html
Brady_to_Moss Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 I use to smoke pot a lot and i would always get so horny. I would want sex every second i was high. I would have no problem getting hard and staying hard
New Again Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 Nope, not you...it's the pot. I have a friend who broke up with her bf over this actually.
Ruby Slippers Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 I use to smoke pot a lot and i would always get so horny. I would want sex every second i was high. Me, too. It sends my drive through the roof, and stoned sex is amazing. But it affects people differently.
In_Repair Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 Weed dick? Really? It's so common there is a term for it? I thought people usually get hornier when they smoke weed... I do...
Trialbyfire Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 For all the people who get in the mood when smoking pot, are you "avid" pot smokers? I'm guessing that there might be a quantifiable difference in intake.
Star Gazer Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 I thought people usually get hornier when they smoke weed... I do... Guys can be horny, and still limp. Wisky dick, weed dick, it's all the same. They want, but cannot perform.
allina Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 My old roomate was a very heavy pot smoker. He was a cool guy and very attractive, had girls over all the time. When none of the girls stuck around I figured that he was a player. He slept with one of my friends and a couple of my other roomate's gf's friends. I ended up hearing from a couple of these girls that he had a similar problem to your bf, likely caused by the mj use. It actually really hindered his relationships because no woman wanted to stick around.
HappyAgain Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 There's definitely a difference by what we define as "avid". One of the reasons I left my ex was because of his weed dick. He was horny as hell when he was stoned but he couldn't keep it up and then rather than admit he had the problem from the MJ he started to blame me and say it was my fault.
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