boredtom Posted September 13, 2009 Posted September 13, 2009 Okay so me and my ex were texting and I was having my last conversation with her because I'm going to go NC. Well we were talking about her coming over and how I had a present for her on her birhtday which already passed and I told her what I wanted to do that day but she never came over that week. So she asks me if I'm still trying to get her back. I basically told her that I'm not trying to get her back anymore and if she ever wanted to give us a try that I would have to think about it first, but I told her that I still had feelings for her, but I just aint trying to get her back anymore because nothing I did worked so she said "oh okay then" then I ask her if she was happy that I moved on since she wanted me to and she replied with "I don't know" so then I ask her if she had anything to tell me and she hasn't replied. I'm confused and when we were texting she was like getting mad because I was taking forever to reply....did it on purpose haha to show her that I'm not waiting for her to text me. So what do you think is going on?
Exit Posted September 13, 2009 Posted September 13, 2009 You may feel like you have a bit of the upper hand, but you're the one here at the forums posting about it, I don't think you're over her. Don't contact her for a while, and continue moving on.
TaraMaiden Posted September 13, 2009 Posted September 13, 2009 Deliberately playing mind-games with someone you have feelings for is not exactly any way to show you do love them, is it? I'm sorry, I think you're being unnecessarily cruel and immature. if you still want to get back with her, tell her. If she says that's great, then work together and stop trying to score points. If she says she's still unsure, then ask her to only get in touch with you when she is sure she DOES want to get back with you. And ONLY then. Then go NO Contact and leave each other alone.
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