ricebunny86 Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 So i been dating this guy since the beginning of may. We would normally see each other on weekends. So anyway, couple weekends ago at his house, i ask him what does he want from me, and what do i mean to him?? He said " te quiero, me gustas, and your just different from other girls. ( note he's mexican, and i am asian but i understand spanish alot!) Afterwards, things kinda got heavy, and we end up at the bedroom, but i told him "i can't do sex yet, cause i just not ready." He said- " i want you to be sure, and i respect you. not a lot of girls i respect cause they are so easy, and i never had to try but you i respect and i never wanted to be with someone so bad. That's a good thing your so different." he said im the longest he waited for, over 3 months since may So then last wk, i went over 2 his house, i got there at 10 at night, and i stay there til 7 in the morning. WE spent the entire night just watching friends, and just talking and kissing but that was it. then we were goofing around and i ask him - " if i am weird, and your weird, what does that make us? he said- " chica, it means we are a weird couple." i was like omg- does that mean were a couple, cause we never had the talk This wk he got drunk and he txt me saying - " i love you, and your the best thing that ever happen 2 me." then he called and he sang this song 2 me. he came over the Next Day to my house, and we just talk and laugh the whole night until midnight. i don't know where we stand! i don't know what we are?!? we never had the talk about us, we can talk like crazy until 6 in the morning but he wont really talk about his feelings about me except when he drunk. he said - " drunken work is what a person is truly feeling." We only see each once a week, ( we go movies, park, beach, or his house, everytime we go 2 his house, he always shows me his photo album ) he txts or call maybe every couple of days. i met his mom before also, its been 4 months but NO sex, and we only see each other ONCE a week, and he barely use the phone. Can this guy really be that into me then??
SoulSearch_CO Posted September 13, 2009 Posted September 13, 2009 Hmm. Something is a little off with this guy and I can't put my finger on it.
SadandConfusedWA Posted September 13, 2009 Posted September 13, 2009 Honestly, he sounds like a sweet talker and a player. I think he has few more girls on the go.
New Again Posted September 13, 2009 Posted September 13, 2009 I agree with the above posters. Just to add: I wouldn't assign much significance (in fact, I wouldn't give them any significance) to his drunk "I love yous." Some people, male and female, just get like that when they're drunk and it doesn't mean anything. Except that they're drunk. As far as the couple comment, I still don't think it means anything. As someone else said, he's just a sweet talker; you set him up to say it, so he did. He sounds like one of those guys who knows what girls (YOU) want to hear, and he has no problem saying it, regardless of veracity.
stepka Posted September 13, 2009 Posted September 13, 2009 Agree with the above posters, and I hate to say it, but he may be waiting for the sex and then you won't see him again.
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