always_searching Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 Okay, so I posted about my situation in another thread, but would really like some insight as to what could be going on in his head... Well, to summarize my other post (though, I'm leaving out some aspects that might take the discussion to a different realm that this particular tread isn't concerning): I like a divorced man who is my superior. He is older than me by about 15 years (or more). The point is: I like this guy, and I would like you to analyze what he might be thinking. Okay, we have spoken both via email and in person about things relating to our work and seem to have a good working relationship, regardless of how I feel about him. One day, we had a talk that was pretty personal--he told me some rather private information (at least, I consider it private). The personal information was mostly on his end, as I thought it best to keep my stories for another time (i.e. after I came on here and asked your opinion!) Anyway, after our talk was over, he told me to come see him any time and that we could talk about anything--work related or not. The next day, I emailed him and asked him a favor regarding helping me with a work-related project and told him I could emphatize with an aspect of his story and that I would talk to him about it one day. He is pretty timely in responding to emails, but he has yet to write me back. I have seen him since this email and he hasn't acted strangly at all. Also, it's important to note that he is really interested in psychology, and maybe is just trying to analyze me? LOL, I don't know. So, my question is: what do you think his intentions are? Is he trying to psychoanalyze me? Is he maybe interested as well? I would just ask him, but we're in kind of a tricky situation, and it may just be best to wait until neither of us are in that situation--which may be why he didn't respond to my email asking for work-related help. Still, I've gotten more emotionally involved with this than I had anticipated... LOL, because CLEARLY I'm a crazy person. Yeah...he's probably just psychoanalyzing me.
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