Coconutlove Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 Why was I so trusting him ? Why my trust was so big ? To get the knife in my back as painfully as possible then ? Why did I let my self become so vulnerable ? Why ? Why did I let him hurt me this much again ? Why ? Why did he hurt me ? Why ? What did I do so bad to him ? W H Y ???
Artu Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 If we know all answers then we need not to ask any more . But life is not so predictable to know whom we can open our hearts and to whom not .. Every event is a lesson you get . Every case is unique . If you tell us more details , we may try to help . But asking just " why " .... only he knows the reasons why putting a knife in your back is so much satisfying him .
Tarantula Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 You let him hurt when you love . You make yourself vulnerable when you open up . The side effects of love .
Author Coconutlove Posted September 12, 2009 Author Posted September 12, 2009 I know what love is , I know what the signs are , I know what the side effects are as well , but I know what LOVE is .... The sign is Love and the side effect is Being vulnerable , but all side effects have to bring happiness as Love cannot be of any other condition per me . ...
Benique Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 I know what love is , I know what the signs are , I know what the side effects are as well , but I know what LOVE is .... The sign is Love and the side effect is Being vulnerable , but all side effects have to bring happiness as Love cannot be of any other condition per me . ... If it was so in real , then there would be no heartbreaks , no pain and no this forum as well , Coconutlove
Adri Ana Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 When in love we tend to believe then in the Ideal Love which exists in our dreams , but reality is more severe , Coconutlove .
Author Coconutlove Posted September 12, 2009 Author Posted September 12, 2009 When in love we tend to believe then in the Ideal Love which exists in our dreams , but reality is more severe , Coconutlove . I understand this well , Adri Ana , but .... there is a real possibility to have this Ideal Love if both of the Two are indeed in love . Yes, there are misunderstandings,there are fights , there are reasons to feel the pain , but when one trusts with her all , why he needs to break all trust and show her this so intensely then ? Show her how least of love he really has for her , no caring for her , no considering her feelings for him .... ? Why ? What for is there the knife into one`s back ? One`s back whom you tell of your love by words and only words are of love , but actions tell the other ? Why ? Why people do not say what they think ? Why people want to hurt so much ? Why ?
IntoLove Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 Coconut.. If you seek any answers,then you lose your time , if you seek any understanding then you are in the right place . But seek your peace withn yourself . Let the pain go and let you calm . Let the storm get down . Go to walk and have a fresh breath . You will get hurt as many times as you get vulnerable .
FairyTale73 Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 Stop thinking, concentrate on other aspects of your life , and when you are feeling rather strong , then just move on .
Author Coconutlove Posted September 12, 2009 Author Posted September 12, 2009 I shall surely move on ! But what the f*ck is love then ? When I stop believing in tales ,can anyone tell ? Why I give all my self and why I get these knives in my back ? Why I committ my self and why I get this sh*t in my face then ? Why I dedicate all I have to one I love and get so disrespected for that ? Why I devote my self and he gives me back his disloyalty and is making fun on me ?? Why ?? Why does it happen when the only thing I demand is just honesty that he is honest with me ? Why does it happen when I declare my total love for him and do not ask anything back ,but to be honest with me with his feelings , nothing more than this ? Why then I get all this sh*t from him ? Why cannot he be just Honest in feelings with me ? Why has he to deceive and cheat on me any time I give all my self ? Why has this to happen always I open up to him ? Why ? F*ck it ! I f*ck all the love that does not exist ! I f*ck all ! I just f*ck it ! F*ck it ! F*ck ! Sh*t ! I f*cking gave all my self ! I f*cking opened up by my all ! I f*cking committed myself ! Why I f*cking believe in love ?!
wtfisit Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 You know,Coconut,I got same things happening on my side , but yesterday night I was thinking to my self , I need to be happy as I FELT LOVE when he does not even understand what true love is .. So be calm,fine and happy with this . Feel happy as you at least gave all your self , you were open , you were vulnerable as you LOVED , you understand ? No matter you got it back same way or not .. You Loved yourself and you were feeling LOVE . You know what it is ... and he is the greatest loser not to understand such love . Feel fine . You are the winner . You Loved .
Adri Ana Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 F*ck it ! I f*ck all the love that does not exist ! I f*ck all ! I just f*ck it ! F*ck it ! F*ck ! Sh*t ! I f*cking gave all my self ! I f*cking opened up by my all ! I f*cking committed myself ! Why I f*cking believe in love ?! Scold as much as you can . At last you will feel so confused as all your words vocabulary is over and you are seeking new forms to express your sorrow-anger so much ... lolol:lmao: . [and at the moment you seek new forms of new expressions,you forget of the one that made you seek all those forms and words and expressions ... loool ]
IntoLove Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 Scold as much as you can . At last you will feel so confused as all your words vocabulary is over and you are seeking new forms to express your sorrow-anger so much ... lolol:lmao: . [and at the moment you seek new forms of new expressions,you forget of the one that made you seek all those forms and words and expressions ... loool ] Adri Ana PsychoTherapy . LOL Scolding vs Heartbreak Just scold , scold , scold , seek new words in dictionaries , walk in the streets , listen to guys scloding ,immediately write down all new words , use on practice at home when you think of your ex and scold, scold , scold non stop till you forget what the hell you are scolding and why
Adri Ana Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 Adri Ana PsychoTherapy . LOL Scolding vs Heartbreak Just scold , scold , scold , seek new words in dictionaries , walk in the streets , listen to guys scloding ,immediately write down all new words , use on practice at home when you think of your ex and scold, scold , scold non stop till you forget what the hell you are scolding and why Lol . Will you be my partner in the new psychotherapy line ? You express my methods better than me myself lol
Artu Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 Try to scold him in 3 words , all words need to make sense in those words , but be always different in all 3 words .
Tarantula Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 Try to scold him in 3 words , all words need to make sense in those words , but be always different in all 3 words . lol It`s a challenge . Good that you did not offer me this solution to my problems . I would get lost seeking those 3 words all different and so many as I would like to Scooooold
Adri Ana Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 lol It`s a challenge . Good that you did not offer me this solution to my problems . I would get lost seeking those 3 words all different and so many as I would like to Scooooold Dun forget , all different 3 , but in one same sense
Artu Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 But to be serious , Coconut, you really have to try this what we offer you and you feel so calm like the storm calmed down and you have to remember why it started at all . As you will be seeking 3 words making one sense , scolding hard , but at the same time all expressions made of different ones.
Author Coconutlove Posted September 12, 2009 Author Posted September 12, 2009 Thank you so much , you all made me laugh so much . I shall try my best to think over those 3 words all different , but making some sense instead of thinking of him and his knife in my back .
FairyTale73 Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 Thank you so much , you all made me laugh so much . I shall try my best to think over those 3 words all different , but making some sense instead of thinking of him and his knife in my back . Laughing is much healthier than aching for any cheater .
Adri Ana Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 Laughing is much healthier than aching for any cheater . ..and much healthier than shooting him down as well
Tarantula Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 ..and much healthier than shooting him down as well I just now noticed the avatar of Coco :D:D But sometimes , here I disagree with you , Adri , shooting him down may give much more consolation , you know
Adri Ana Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 I just now noticed the avatar of Coco :D:D But sometimes , here I disagree with you , Adri , shooting him down may give much more consolation , you know No, no , ,I can`t lead to murders in my PsychoTherapy ...lol and this forum will get closed if such suggestions appear here offering to kill every "sweetheart" that is so bitter to heart .. lolol
Benique Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 We need this forum to share our pains . So ,please, do not talk of murders any more It really helped me with two my daughters they both had problems which were to be solved ..and they got solved partially thanks to this forum . I thank this forum for existing .
Artu Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 I thank this forum for existing . Dear Benique , actually this forum has admin and moderators , you may thank them , not the forum itself ...
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