Trialbyfire Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 Glad to see you had a good time. It's nice to read about good things happening to the members on LS. Life's not always tragic or difficult.
alphamale Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 I'm hooking him dinner on Thursday. you're hooking yourself out for dinner with him?
Star Gazer Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 Things are progressing naturally, and that's how I want it. I do like him, but I'm not going to have super high expectations. I'm enjoying him, and spending time with him. Perfection! :bunny:
WineCountry Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 Good for you Dreamer. If he has a brother send him up here.
Island Girl Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 Good for you Dreamer. If he has a brother send him up here. WineCountry will you help Dreamer with a good wine (reasonably priced) to go along with her dinner? Her new man likes reds...
Phateless Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 Thanks! :bunny: I think I'm going to make italian seasoned chicken, with spaghetti and some good bread. With wine of course. He likes red wine - any suggestions on a good type? I'm not floating in the dough here, but I want to make it as nice of a dinner as I can. Oooo my favorite part of the weekend is when he found a left handed glove and we tossed the baseball around Oooo and I forget to mention, he actually cooked me a meal too! I'm definitely a wine noob but I always thought it was whites for chicken, reds for beef? Oh yeah, congrats on finding someone worth taking a risk for. He sounds like a nice guy. Here's hoping he doesn't prove me wrong. Keep your heart and your eyes open.
Star Gazer Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 I'm definitely a wine noob but I always thought it was whites for chicken, reds for beef? Not necessarily. Depends on what sauce she's cooking with the spaghetti. If she's using a red sauce, a red wine would be lovely.
Author dreamergrl Posted September 14, 2009 Author Posted September 14, 2009 Good for you Dreamer. If he has a brother send him up here. His brother is becoming a catholic priest. you're hooking yourself out for dinner with him? LMAO I can't believe I wrote hooking I'm definitely a wine noob but I always thought it was whites for chicken, reds for beef? Oh yeah, congrats on finding someone worth taking a risk for. He sounds like a nice guy. Here's hoping he doesn't prove me wrong. Keep your heart and your eyes open. Eyes are open! So here is something that made me turn white as a ghost. I was telling my mom about my dates this weekend, and we stay in touch on facebook - well she thought she'd be funny and requested him as a friend :confused::confused:
alphamale Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 LMAO I can't believe I wrote hooking :confused::confused: i have first dibs on pimping you out
Phateless Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 Eyes are open! So here is something that made me turn white as a ghost. I was telling my mom about my dates this weekend, and we stay in touch on facebook - well she thought she'd be funny and requested him as a friend :confused::confused: Good! hahahaha, I think he'll get it. Make a big joke out of it and he'll laugh, it'll be fine. When my gf and I were new, a couple of her friends and family friend requested me just to spy on me. I thought that was rather amusing but it didn't really bother me. I just remember thinking, "wow, her friends are NOSY!" lol
Author dreamergrl Posted September 14, 2009 Author Posted September 14, 2009 Not necessarily. Depends on what sauce she's cooking with the spaghetti. If she's using a red sauce, a red wine would be lovely. I know he mentioned the type of red wine he likes, but I can't remember it for the life of me. I know it's not merlot - well he likes it, but it's not his favorite. I am going to be making a red sauce. There's one more thing... and I was honestly unsure if I should mention it.. but here it goes.. When we were talking about plans for me to cook him dinner, he asked when I got done with work, and I told him. He said he didn't get done till 6 (me 2:30) but I was welcome to come early and get it started even though he wasn't there, and offered me a spare key to let myself in. Is this weird, or does it just mean he trusts me alone in his house? Or what? Do you guys think I should or shouldn't have taken the key?
BobSacamento Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 I know he mentioned the type of red wine he likes, but I can't remember it for the life of me. I know it's not merlot - well he likes it, but it's not his favorite. I am going to be making a red sauce. There's one more thing... and I was honestly unsure if I should mention it.. but here it goes.. When we were talking about plans for me to cook him dinner, he asked when I got done with work, and I told him. He said he didn't get done till 6 (me 2:30) but I was welcome to come early and get it started even though he wasn't there, and offered me a spare key to let myself in. Is this weird, or does it just mean he trusts me alone in his house? Or what? Do you guys think I should or shouldn't have taken the key? Are you kidding? Of course you take it! Perfect time to snoop around
alphamale Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 He said he didn't get done till 6 (me 2:30) but I was welcome to come early and get it started even though he wasn't there, and offered me a spare key to let myself in. Is this weird, or does it just mean he trusts me alone in his house? that is plain weird man
Author dreamergrl Posted September 14, 2009 Author Posted September 14, 2009 Good! hahahaha, I think he'll get it. Make a big joke out of it and he'll laugh, it'll be fine. When my gf and I were new, a couple of her friends and family friend requested me just to spy on me. I thought that was rather amusing but it didn't really bother me. I just remember thinking, "wow, her friends are NOSY!" lol So I checked my facebook, both my mom's page and his page says they are now friends He did email to tell me that he hopes I'm having a good day Didn't mention my mom. Yikes.
Phateless Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 I know he mentioned the type of red wine he likes, but I can't remember it for the life of me. I know it's not merlot - well he likes it, but it's not his favorite. I am going to be making a red sauce. There's one more thing... and I was honestly unsure if I should mention it.. but here it goes.. When we were talking about plans for me to cook him dinner, he asked when I got done with work, and I told him. He said he didn't get done till 6 (me 2:30) but I was welcome to come early and get it started even though he wasn't there, and offered me a spare key to let myself in. Is this weird, or does it just mean he trusts me alone in his house? Or what? Do you guys think I should or shouldn't have taken the key? I find that "a little" off... sounds like he's rushing things a bit... but maybe he just trusts you or didn't want the evening to start too late? Perhaps he's just trying to let you know he trusts you? Yeah, it's A LITTLE weird but I think it would be foolish for us to read too far into it. Just tuck this away as a mental note to cross-reference later on, if that makes sense?
alphamale Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 his porn collection will be either in his bedroom or somewhere near the TV. probably in a box or some other container.
Author dreamergrl Posted September 14, 2009 Author Posted September 14, 2009 Are you kidding? Of course you take it! Perfect time to snoop around I wouldn't snoop Although, I kind of took it as he must trust me enough to let me be in his house alone. that is plain weird man Yeah, I don't know if I'd let a guy have a key, even if it's just for that day, so soon.
Star Gazer Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 I find that "a little" off... sounds like he's rushing things a bit... I think it sounds like he's rushing things a LOT. Why is what's unclear here. I mean, it's not like he's getting off work late. He's getting off at 6, plenty of time for her to make dinner after he gets home. There's no need for her to be there. Dreamer, what do you know about his relationship history? When was his last relationship? How long was it? Why did it end, etc. I actually think you're going to tire of this guy quickly, after the excitement of meeting a seemingly normal, respectful guy wears off.
Author dreamergrl Posted September 14, 2009 Author Posted September 14, 2009 I find that "a little" off... sounds like he's rushing things a bit... but maybe he just trusts you or didn't want the evening to start too late? Perhaps he's just trying to let you know he trusts you? Yeah, it's A LITTLE weird but I think it would be foolish for us to read too far into it. Just tuck this away as a mental note to cross-reference later on, if that makes sense? Well, even though I'm not 'getting tied up in the basement' (as some have called it on here ), I did spend the night because we had drinks and it got late. He's very cuddly may I add Is that rushing things? It didn't feel weird that I stayed over, and not once did I feel like he was just trying to get in my pants. his porn collection will be either in his bedroom or somewhere near the TV. probably in a box or some other container. Maybe it's on his computer
alphamale Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 i don't think i've ever given a key to any woman i've dated, even if we were together long-term. oh wait there was one girl, but we were neighbours.
alphamale Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 Maybe it's on his computer if so, beware of the crusty areas near and below his machine
Author dreamergrl Posted September 14, 2009 Author Posted September 14, 2009 I think it sounds like he's rushing things a LOT. Why is what's unclear here. I mean, it's not like he's getting off work late. He's getting off at 6, plenty of time for her to make dinner after he gets home. There's no need for her to be there. Dreamer, what do you know about his relationship history? When was his last relationship? How long was it? Why did it end, etc. I actually think you're going to tire of this guy quickly, after the excitement of meeting a seemingly normal, respectful guy wears off. From what I understand, he hasn't had unhealthy type relationships. He doesn't show any sign of baggage either. His last relationship ended I think he said 3 months ago, or maybe it was two. He hasn't uttered a word about anything ending badly for him, or any resentment.
Author dreamergrl Posted September 14, 2009 Author Posted September 14, 2009 if so, beware of the crusty areas near and below his machine Well it is a lap top
Star Gazer Posted September 14, 2009 Posted September 14, 2009 From what I understand, he hasn't had unhealthy type relationships. He doesn't show any sign of baggage either. His last relationship ended I think he said 3 months ago, or maybe it was two. He hasn't uttered a word about anything ending badly for him, or any resentment. Okay, but that doesn't really answer any of those questions. For all you know, his longest relationship was when he was in high school and it ended after 3 weeks because ... he was clingy (and yet he doesn't know that's the real reason why). Do you see what I'm getting at? Flat out, I'm wondering if he's desperate (for lack of a better word) for a relationship, and like you, is ecstatic at the thought of having met a sane, attractive, fun person. Just move slowly - EMOTIONALLY. You two are already way too close for having met just 72 hours ago.
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