indie22 Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 So last semester I had the hugest crush on this guy in my class, he was very outgoing, flirtatous and just a very good personality. He approached me once, when we were in class together and no one showed up, but I did not take him seriously because after that day he did not ask for my phone number plus I was talking to someone at the time (but did not tell him). I was actually over my crush when he approached me, this was the point in time when my feelings were numb toward just about anyone...(I miss that feeling, lol). Anyways, I started to like him agian and he never really approached me nor asked for my number. I liked him through the whole summer w/out seeing him and into this semester, which is BAD! This guy I used to date works w/him now with his record, my crush and this girl sings together (yes, just a tad jealous, lol)...so that guy that I used to date keeps trying to persue me agian. When we went out on a date it did not go well. I think my crush maybe talking to the girl he is recording w/but Im not really sure...I just saw her carrying her book back upstairs (not sure if it was hers or not) My crush only approached me recently because he had these flyers that he was giving out when he saw me he said hey, but did not spark up a convo. I could not even read his eyes, they seemed lifeless... I have never been in a serious relationship and my crush is experienced so I never told him how I felt because I want something serious...I never had one. (I dont think thats fair to the rookies...) Anyways, how do I get over my crush? The guy I used to date is not a good distraction from him and I cant even go into the art building anymore because i might see my crush and the girl...I hate feeling jealous:rolleyes: or that guy will bother me.
Butterflying Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 This is difficult because you're trying to get over an "ideal" that you've created. That's what crushes are, ideals. Since you created it, you have to stop it with a counter-creation. Or you can find someone else to focus your attention on.
Author indie22 Posted September 12, 2009 Author Posted September 12, 2009 This is difficult because you're trying to get over an "ideal" that you've created. That's what crushes are, ideals. Since you created it, you have to stop it with a counter-creation. Or you can find someone else to focus your attention on. Hello Butterflying (and every1 else) I did not get the chance to properly introduce myself, Im not sure if the site has an introductions section. Okay, that is true, and that is why I want to get over it. If he is seeing someone, I can only imagine what she goes through...then agian I can not bare to see them together:sick: Should I talk to the guy who persued me agian? He is a really nice person he just said something that did not sit right with me last time we went out...
Butterflying Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 Should I talk to the guy who persued me agian? He is a really nice person he just said something that did not sit right with me last time we went out... That's totally up to you. I don't have enough info to give an opinion on him. If you think he's nice, go for it! You should call him before going out again and talk about whatever he said that didn't sit right with you. Perhaps there was a misunderstanding.
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