Joe Public Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 Went out with this girl for about 3 weeks...I get an email saying she had fun with me and everything but she said there was something missing At least she could just said it to me over the phone..thats how I do things...I wish they would just be upfront Just venting
Leia Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 At least she said something rather than nothing at all
Thaddeus Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 "Something missing" Translation: You haven't jumped through the hoops. Doesn't matter that you don't know what they are because I don't know what they are either, and even if I did I wouldn't tell you. ...NEXT...!
Soul Bear Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 Hey bro, at least now you are free to find someone where that 'something' is there on both sides. That 'something' is probably chemistry....
carhill Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 I wish they would just be upfront Some are. It doesn't make it any more pleasant. Perhaps her words carry a bit of advice. Make it fun and enjoy that fun. Then, if nothing further, next. Easy
Jersey Shortie Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 Hey Joe, I've been turned down that way as well. Try not to take it as too roughly. It stings a little but what matters is that you know *you* wouldn't have handled it like that and that says what kind of person you are. I one time dated a man for about a month. One night we were chatting online and he just said he thought he found a better woman suited for him, his next door neighbor or something. I liked him enough to see where things were going so it did sting and the fact that he did it online stung too. I removed him from my instant messenger system and about a few months later I got a random "hello" from him online. I didn't even remember who it was at first. His name was Matt and I had dated a few Matts. He told me how after he started to date this woman he came home one afternoon to surprise her and found her bleeping the other neighbor. Do I wish that on anyway one? No. But I can't lie and tell you it didn't make me feel a little good. All in all, that person just isn't the one for you. "Something missing" Translation: You haven't jumped through the hoops. Doesn't matter that you don't know what they are because I don't know what they are either, and even if I did I wouldn't tell you. ...NEXT...! Ummm, I completely disagree that "something missing" means "you didn't jump through enough hoops." More truthy when a woman thinks something is "missing" she doesn't feel the chemistry. And that wouldn't matter if he did jump through hoops or not. And women aren't the only ones that need to feel some chemistry. Three weeks is a decent enough time to give someone a chance without going so long if it's not working out.
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