C.Chase Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 So I just need a place to vent out whats going through my mind. So a few months back I got together with a girl who had broken up with her ex about 3 months or so prior to that. She ended up getting back together with him after a few days and I found out through a mutual friend. So I posted on here that she had come around again and I was told that it was most likely that nothing would happen. Well, it was half right, I guess. So we dated for the past week and we spent probably 8 hours a day talking, otherwise texting while she was at work, I at school. We went out tonight and had a very lovely dinner, and ended up going to the beach around 12:30 and spending a few hours there, notice its just after 5AM right now and I just got home. So over the past 2 days we really came to admit to eachother that we really like eachother, especially tonight. She admitted how long ago in the beginning she liked me and things would have happened a lot sooner if a certain friend would have left the room LOL. Anyway I really love talking to/hanging out with this girl, and we really do just click, we could (and do) literally talk ALL DAY (were texting right now lol). Unfortunately, during our converstaion tonight she came to realize that she really wants to date me but shes not over her ex yet, as they recently broke up again. So again, this is where its come to, and I just wanted to share to get it off my chest. Ive been thru breakups before but it still doesnt fail to hurt. Thanks for listening!
NopeNah Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 You're the "rebound" guy..bounce, homie. She'll keep going back to her ex as long as the feelings for him are still there.. that's what mine and many others have done. This one is no exception to the rule.
Excellent Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 I'd make like my mate's pants when he sat down in his car, and split! If it's one thing i learned about my breakup with my ex, is that ANY woman who is "afraid of", "unsure of" or "not over their ex", you'll want to do a 180 and run. Unless you are only after a short fling, then it's perfect to be the rebound. If they are unsure, they are not ready. If they are not ready, it's doomed. Perhaps not right now, but give it a couple of weeks/months, and i'm sure you'll start to see the changes.
Author C.Chase Posted September 13, 2009 Author Posted September 13, 2009 Thats what I was pretty aware/very afraid of. As much as I know whats up it sucks that we do click so well. She was actually fine last time but after she got back together with him, he pulled her back in and its back to square one. I dunno, I mean in the area that I live its not common to find a down to earth girl with common interests, I promise its not lol. And its not that im picky its just that 99% of the women in my area are NOT at ALL my type. All im looking for is a girl I can connect with on a real normal level and we dont have those here (and we can talk/hang out ALL DAY), so... Wish it were all different, thus is life, right...? =\
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