healsole Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 i'm in a newish relationship (4 months or so) with a great man. he's commented previously that he is a big fan of receiving the "ring and leave a dirty message when i'm away from the telephone" bit. i want to do it; what do i say? i want to remain at least a TAD bit tasteful; can't stand the thought of leaving a poorly delivered message when it comes to this type of thing! i know he will probably play it over and over because i know that is what i would do! any suggestions for fun, playful little (non-regrettable) teasers?
seoa Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 it's only been 4 months... which means there's a chance things might not work out - so don't leave anything that you would be embarrassed to have him share with others in the event of a bad breakup... that's a bit negative, sorry, but at this stage i'd definitely underplay it - messages that he can read into, but are more about tone of voice and maybe a private joke, so that it would sound obscure to outsiders - nothing explicit, nothing you wouldn't mind your parents hearing... plus - if he's into this, then surely he's doing it for you... which means you've got some examples to work from...
Author healsole Posted September 12, 2009 Author Posted September 12, 2009 thanks! he actually hasn't done this for me yet either, so no examples to go off from. he's just casually mentioned that it would be a big turn-on. the private joke idea is great! i'll scheme on that for a while...
stepka Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 . . . you have been a most inattentive lover lately and I got so lonesome that I took off with the raggle taggle gypsies O! *There is one in particular who has the most mesmerizing. . . well never mind--he is a horse trader and I'm learning to read the tarot cards. Here's an excerpt from an email that I sent a man who hadn't called in a week and after he wrote to apologize. . . the only reason I'm posting it is so you can see how to do the naughty message tastefully. BTW, I finally gave up on him and almost got a date with a Bulgarian gypsy right after, but my coworker nixed that one since he knew the guy had an Islamic wife back in the homeland.
Soul Bear Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 If you want to remain tasteful, don't do it unless you feel comfortable doing so! I would far rather a nice phone call saying how much you missed me and couldn't wait to jump on me when we next met.
caramel c Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 If you haven't become sexually intimate yet then just wait on the message. If you have, then there's still no rush. You can ease into it. Catch him offguard. If he just told you this then I would still wait a while, that way its unexpected if he doesn't get it for another month or so. It would be a nice surprise then. Even then, keep it to one sentence and don't name any body parts or food lol, just something nice and flirty...
Recommended Posts