CARL45 Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 Ever meet a women attractive,interesting, uninterested in playing mind games(that most women play!!!). your about to ask her out and you find out that she is either married or has a boyfriend. I mine this happens to me all the f--king time!!!!!!!!!!! I feel like a Seinfeld character or something. I mine there's all one woman I know who says she does not have a boyfriend or lover and she's really strange. I mine is this a sigh should I go out with the strange woman or just keep trying? What do you think?
Tayla Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 Doctor Freud would say you carry a self seeking prophecy . Deliberately seeking them out and then being PROUD for saying I YET AGAIN FOUND ONE!! Like its a prize to be stuck in that situation. Stop type casting women. we are as different as we are strong. I am a lady and I really do GET that some Humans do play games, and then there are some downright sensible and mature adults that know the difference. Try them out sometime you'd be surprized how your attitude will change
fkn Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 just because they have a boyfriend doesnt mean there offlimits;)
MadDriver Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 All desirable women are always taken. All desirable men are always taken. However, they will trade up if something better comes along.
Pedigree Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 Ever meet a women attractive,interesting, uninterested in playing mind games(that most women play!!!). your about to ask her out and you find out that she is either married or has a boyfriend. I mine this happens to me all the f--king time!!!!!!!!!!! I feel like a Seinfeld character or something. I mine there's all one woman I know who says she does not have a boyfriend or lover and she's really strange. I mine is this a sigh should I go out with the strange woman or just keep trying? What do you think? Hell yes! Here, have a beer on the house. It gets frustrating sometimes, but I've learned to look at it this way: 1. It's just not your luck. You may have not gotten the girl but you should give yourself a pat on the back for taking a shot. 2. For every desirable woman that is taken, there is a desirable woman who are not taken because everyone thinks that she's taken.
Trialbyfire Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 Consider yourself lucky that they're willing to admit, they're previously committed. There are many douchebags in the world who will lie or lie by omission, gender aside.
Author CARL45 Posted September 12, 2009 Author Posted September 12, 2009 Well thanks for the responses!!!! I though I was alone, but there are other people who had the same experience.
carhill Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 LOL, like the whole world. I got myself into more trouble and heartache as a young man with women who were less than completely truthful about their relationship status. I now understand they were just feeding their ego and cut me off when they had their fill. Life goes on
Leia Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 Well thanks for the responses!!!! I though I was alone, but there are other people who had the same experience. I have experienced that more than a couple of times.
Left in a Lurch Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 I get this all the time. Talk to someone all night, she flirts, my jokes go well, we have a ton in common, talking with her is like talking with an old friend and then she'll say something like, "my boyfriend says the same thing", or "my husband does that too". In fact that's how I know someone is married or attached, she seems interested in me. So now if I talk to a woman and it seems like it is going well I know that's my cue to walk away.
Pedigree Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 In fact that's how I know someone is married or attached, she seems interested in me. So now if I talk to a woman and it seems like it is going well I know that's my cue to walk away. That's not very encouraging isn't, it? I guess that's part of the whole "when they're in a relationship, they're under no pressure" deal.
ReturnToSender Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 I have to admit, Ive been in this situation but not cause I was f-ing with someone... This is one of those darned if you do, darned if you dont situations... Cause if you dont talk to a guy just for being nice, then youre "one of those snobby biatchins" but you are nice then youre fing with his head and leading him on. Im generally nice and will talk to anyone...nothing wrong with small talk. Once I realize the guy isnt just being nice and its turning flirtatious, then yeah, Id somehow work it into the conversation that I have a bf. Sometimes they remain nice, and the convo comes to a smooth close..or like OP said, theyll just walk away. Kinda leaves me there feeling like..okay, if Im not gonna get in bed with you, Im not even going to waste my time on being nice to you. Which of course might be why so many women simply stop being nice altogether...its an awkward position to be put in.
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