Surfer Girl Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 I know in my heart it is best I don't follow thru with the relationship of 7 years.... yet the sadness and the history continues to envade my mind..... the connection, the feeling of looking into each others eyes and knowing you knew what they wanted, felt..... so sad... It will be ok.... I just don't know if I will feel that connection again.... I don't expect an answer as this will be one of those post that people will say.... been there done that... it's ok just a vent!!!!
caramel c Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 I have no answers for you because I feel the same way! I wonder will I ever have a love like that again? Well, the only way to find out is to go out into the world with an open heart.
Trialbyfire Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 ((hugs)) Yes btdt and yes, the sadness is the worst, for opportunities lost and a future that will never be. But...we move on and find new loves. We really do if we let ourselves.
GrayClouds Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 , knowing you knew what they wanted, And what they wanted was to put you through this and to move on. What your feeling is your capacity to love deeply. Yes it hurts now but it is also what is going to allow you that and more with the next one you open up too when you get to healthy. The weekends are hard so be kind to yourself.
phoenix1 Posted September 12, 2009 Posted September 12, 2009 It's OK surfergirl, vent away. I completely understand. My posting from yesterday had almost the same sentiment. And like you, I know it is better for me to not continue this relationship, but......it's so hard. I wish I had an easy answer for you, for me.
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