How to tell a girl to take it slow?

[Rebellious]

I have met this girl about a month ago and only in the past week have we started seeing each other. I have no complains about her, she is gorgeous, intelligent, passionate, honest most of all and has a great personality. Last night she told me she is falling for me hard, never met anyone like me, from the moment she saw me couldn’t stop thinking about me, etc… and wants to “take it to the next step”, I have no clue what that step might be so I told her we will discuss it later and left her place because it was getting late and I was really tired. I really like this girl and girls like her don’t stay single for long so I don’t want to say the wrong thing and make her think I am not interested. I am interested but I feel like I barely know her. We hit it off right away and there is a ton of attraction between us but I think this early she is infatuated with the “image” of me rather than the real person. I don’t even know if I want to be in a relationship right now, I kind of like meeting new girls and most of my free time goes towards a sport. On the other hand I tried and so far couldn’t find a single flaw in her, she has so much passion and drive she makes me feel alive and we compliment each other well so I could see us a couple.

 

Anyway how do you tell a girl you want to take it easy and get to know each other first without scaring her off? My guy friends are no help.

 

 

How old are you dude? The girl is h0rny and wants to get on with it:bunny:

[fatamus]

I am in my mid 20's, and I work in the morning and train 3-4 hours a day in the evening every day so when I get home I got all this testosterone that needs to go somewhere. Well if I am dating a girl seriously I don’t want her to give it up within a few weeks (who does?). I think a bit of waiting makes the chaise that much better, if we started hooking up now I don’t think either of us would leave the house for a while haha and then we would definately be "together".

[fatamus]

Well so much for my taking it slow plan. We went out again and got back to her place… there is just too much chemistry and sexual tension between us. This girl is so seductive in this wild non-slutty way, I cant even put in into words. She got these dark exotic eyes that just drive me crazy, it’s like she got me hypnotized or something. I guess part of it is lust, but I can’t be with someone who I am not crazily attracted too. I guess we are pretty official at this point after tonight; we agreed to take it slow(er) and no dating other people. Who knows where this will go, my head is still spinning. If everything goes well, in a few years I am looking to settle down and start building my dream house so I don’t want to waste time jumping from one girl to the next. The past year for me has been very hard, and I have put all of my effort into self improvement and it’s paying off big time. People who know me closely tell me that a regular person would have ended up in an insane asylum after all the stuff I’ve been through; it’s enough to fill 3 books worth. This girl seems to really understand me and appreciates me. At first I thought I was a bad person for getting mad at my ex and we would get into fights but most of it was over her lying about every little thing, covering her tracks, cheating, and having absolutely no drive or passion for anything in life. No more of that, thank God. I feel pretty damn lucky right now!

 

Myself and this girl seem to feed off each others ambitions, passions and ideas. I am really starting to fall in love with her personality; she is extremely adoring and just has this flame burning inside of her that I can relate to, always full of energy. No games, no BS, no fake kindness. This is rare for me but I feel outclassed in some topics we discuss, her father got her into wind sailing at a young age so she is big time into ocean stuff; diving, spear fishing and wind sailing, she sad she can’t wait to teach me so we have the next few weeks already planned out. This girl got her hooks in me that’s for sure.