Bill75 Posted September 11, 2009 Posted September 11, 2009 I had a relationship of almost 3 years end a couple of weeks ago. And she very quickly started seeing someone, which hurts, but I have accepted it. I got dumped, but she had a pretty hard time with coming to the decision and it took her over a week to really decide. She turned to a good friend of mine (a female) for advice and for someone to talk to. They have become better friends than before than they were before the breakup. I am now not contacting the ex at all. And I feel like the mutual friend has some input and her advice means a lot to my ex. Do I try to be really honest with the friend about my feelings, where I messed up, and how I have now realized my errors? And hope that she relays these onto the ex? I was in such shock about the breakup that I really did not get a chance to tell the ex these things.
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