bluesky123 Posted September 11, 2009 Posted September 11, 2009 Hey all ! I'm backing after a few weeks, been keeping real busy. However this week has been terrible. I've been NC for 3 months and my ex is back in town. I find myself looking over my shoulder all the time becuase we frequent the same places. Should I call her ? I told her when she left me that we cannot talk maybe I shot myself in the foot. She has been 3 months NC I guess she has moved on. She's the one that got away I'm feeling so down this morning.
Island Girl Posted September 11, 2009 Posted September 11, 2009 No you don't call her. How do you even know she is back in town? If you run into her take the high road ask how she is - glad you are good -- and then get the hell outta there. She dumped you. She has obviously been fine with that decision. To you she should be just another person you knew for a brief time in life. Like someone from high school that you never talk to. Treat her the same way you'd treat them. Now if you happened to find out some random person you went to high school with was in town would you go out of your way to tell them "hi" or anything? No...so then why would you extend that to her? And I get you think she is the one that got away -- but she is the one who cut bait on you and clearly she doesn't think YOU are the one that got away. Close that chapter and don't even think about it anymore.
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