maymay Posted September 11, 2009 Posted September 11, 2009 I had been with my boyfriend for four years already and we have apply flat. All the while we seldom quarrel. Recently, he always praise how cute and caring is his colleague to me ever seen he started to sing karaoke with his group of female colleague. I ask him iz he fall in love with one of them. He denied and assure to me that they are only their colleague. One fine day i happen to catch him sms " hehe, i tok you are sleeping" to someone. At first he lie is his friend but i refuse to believe. He no choice but to admit to me actually he fall in love with one of his colleague but he not sure whether she like him also. So, i ask him who he will choose between we 2. he couldnt ans. He say he felt our distance drifted apart. and told me he will withdraw the flat and compensate me the money. I was so sad thinking that no hope between us. The next day he came to find me and beg forgiveness. He say he can give up that girl as he cant lose me. He say he love me. I still love him so i forgive him. HE even call my father promise him that he will not hurt me again. But i still feel insecure. I even ask him a few times whether he really wan to be with me anot. he told me yes. However, a few days later, he told me actually he only love me 80%. He say he didnt love me as much as before and ask me can accept it anot. I say wait one day he will tell me become 60% how i going to accept. So, he decide to break up with me. He told me im correct i shouldnt take the risks. He say maybe he beg forgiveness that time is cos he is gulity of me. He say he doesnt know whether is gulity or love me already. He say he cant give me happiness ask me to find another man. He told me if i need any help can still look for him. Im very sad as i was hurt second time again. He got send me sms must take care of myself and say he beri gulity towards me. Feel that why he change so fast. What is he thinking? Does he still love me? I really love him but dont think he will come to me again.
DustySaltus Posted September 11, 2009 Posted September 11, 2009 I don't understand how someone can love someone else at 80%, 60% 25%.....they are either in love with you or they aren't. At this point let him give you the money for the flat, tie up any loose financial issues and then don't be in contact with him. This guy isn't a real man. A real man would've said his feelings changed before he got caught, not after. You can do better. I wish you the best.
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