boredtom Posted September 11, 2009 Posted September 11, 2009 To be mad at my ex for falling for someone after 2 or 3 weeks of our break up? For breaking every promise that she made with me. For lying to me that she loved me. For not telling me in person that she wanted to break up with me....now she can't even see me. She makes up excuses to not see me, I just want her to tell me to my face that she has no more feelings for me and has moved on and doesn't want to be with me now or in the future. I mean I know why she dumped me but she can't even tell me why, I just want to hear it coming out of her mouth while she is looking at my eyes. I don't think she can do this, I think she is hiding her feelings for me and doesn't want to face the fact that she still wants me (maybe not). if she does come over then as she said before "she might fall for me again" do I have the right to be mad at her? Because I am and I don't even want to talk to her anymore. I have never felt this way towards her.
RYKR Posted September 11, 2009 Posted September 11, 2009 It's natural for a person to feel anger and bitterness towards an ex. Just don't allow those emotions to control you as a person, the longer this persist then it can be self-destructive to yourself. It's best to find an activity to relieve those feelings. Also don't be delusional in believing she wants to return. Remember she ain't coming back, so there is no sense in thinking what could have happen. It's time to slowly let go and heal.
adamt Posted September 11, 2009 Posted September 11, 2009 It sounds like she is with someone else. So at this stage you have to assume she is over you and moved on and into someone else. There is no point getting intouch with her wanting answers. She will just fob you off and you will end up asking more questions. YOu need to focus on yourself and ask yourself questions on what you are going to do to heal yourself. By hassling her it makes you look desperate and sad which is not attractive and will reduce any chance you have of her coming back. It is not like in the movies where the dumper realises their mistake after being hassled and they then live happlity ever after. She may come back, but the chances are slim. So you have to focus on yourself
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