Am I being tested by this woman????

[CARL45]

So, I am eating lunch with a women from class and her friend. And some how we get to talking men talking to women. The woman's friend asks me if I would give a woman extra brownie points as she says it to a woman that would approach a man. I said I would not care either way. The topic moved onto sex. Primarily if I cared about what clothes women wear. I said "No" most men don't care at all, if they look good, reasonable intelligent and if they have "ass" factor, a term my friend in high school developed, if they have all of this will go out with them. Then she asked why men don't approach women? I said " I approach women" they laughed. I told them because they are nervous then I gave them a funny example which they laughed at. Then the conversation moved onto porn, the woman's friend said she watched it with her boyfriend, I said I watched it a few times, then the conversation got into this long discussion about different types of porn/erotica. Though strangely enough all this conversation was happening outside surround by people. And even stranger the woman never mentioned her boyfriend only her Ex's. What does this mean? Or maybe I am looking to much into this? Or have become more confident? I find the conversation strange and surprising primarily because in the past I would try to hide some the things I said because I wanted to be a nice guy. Now I really don't care what anybody thinks. I also think I was in a way being tested by the friend. It seems that women are always putting out test for men and normally in the past I have failed these test because I have presented myself so passively I almost became a male feminist, but I really don't care what people think that much anymore. Has someone ever had this similar experience tell me???