Trent21 Posted September 10, 2009 Posted September 10, 2009 My girlfriend of 9 months is the best thing that ever happened to me. Shes loving, caring, funny and really sweet. We are now pregnant and everything is going fine, but lately ive been feeling a little unsure of myself and unconfindent. Her ex boyfriend is this bigshot guy whos a huge player and muscular in tip top shape and has a lot of game and style women all over just love him and he is always the life of the party and oh so popular with just about everyone. Anyway he dumped he last year and told her how he cheated on her while they were living together and she was still sleeping together after he broke it off! So i get with her after all of this was over and as soon as she got with me she was telling me she is so in love and wants to be together forever and have a family lol and now were pregnant. But! All of this info was recently dropped on me at dinner in a johnny corrinos and it was just a lil too much to take in all at once. I just feel like weird that if i so much as say a curse word she gets mad but as I heard with her ex they would do drugs and drink, party and sleep around and it was ok. am i just being a duche bag or should i feel a little loserish?
xpaperxcutx Posted September 10, 2009 Posted September 10, 2009 I think you should reread your post and wonder how he was ever any better. I think that if there were any person you would want to compare yourself with, it would not be the ex in this case. He sounds horrible and if anything I'm pretty sure your gf is lucky that she found you after what she had been through with her. Enjoy your blessings.
Calendula Posted September 11, 2009 Posted September 11, 2009 It sounds like you may be the opposite of her ex in a lot of ways. If this is the case, than chances are that she is with you because she wanted something different than him, because in hindsight she was miserable with him and is much happier with you. You are definately not a looser, you are just different from her ex, and in good ways. Remember, she is with YOU and not still with him, no matter what he looks like or how 'popular' he is. With a baby on the way, have you talked about marriage?
Author Trent21 Posted September 11, 2009 Author Posted September 11, 2009 Everyones reply is so insightfull and made me take a deeper look at myself and how i deal with my realationships. Maybe I cannot see it through through her eyes. I also get really jealous over stupid little things i wonder if past realationship made me this way or is it something more complex than that?
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