jessy1 Posted September 10, 2009 Posted September 10, 2009 Hey there Just come to this site fresh of being rejected by a guy ive liked for agggges I feel so sad today and just feel like having a rant Im 22 and obviously single. Ive had two serious boyfriends, both who dumped me (one left me for someone else and the other turned gay) Both (especially the first) hurt sooooooo much and my self confidence really took a dive. Ive been single for a while now but there have been a few guys ive been interesested however they ALL rejected me. Besides my two boyfriends every other guy has rejected me. They all seem interested for a while, get my number etc then all of a sudden they are not interested at all. This happens time and time again and my self confidence is totally shot. Ive seen all sorts of people with different body shapes and personalities able to get a partner but for some reason no one wants me. I dont know what it is about me I think im a normalish person, have a degree and play sport for my country. Im not hot but I dont think im thhaat ugly.. Does anyone else have this problem? I hope this makes sense to someone. Sorry if it doesn't. Im upset so rambling. Im so tired of being rejected ALL the time. I used to have confidence but now I hate my self and im convinced there is something wrong with me or I wouldnt get rejected all the time. Today I feel so sad. There was this guy i was very interested in. He asked for my number, asked me out, said he really liked me etc then all of a sudden he says hes not interested and doesn't want a gf Whats so wrong with me? Why does this keep happening Im so sad and lonely
Broseph Posted September 10, 2009 Posted September 10, 2009 Im 22 and obviously single. This is your first positive here, your only 22. Keep your head up and I have had two major serious relationships (3-4 years) both after the tender age of 22. Ive had two serious boyfriends, both who dumped me (one left me for someone else and the other turned gay) Both (especially the first) hurt sooooooo much and my self confidence really took a dive. It sucks being dumped been there twice, actually felt like crying today but dont let this drag you down. You sound like your a catch to me. Ive been single for a while now but there have been a few guys ive been interesested however they ALL rejected me. Do **** now while your single that you wont be able to do once your partnered up. Some guys are idiots especially at 18-22. I regret now at the age of 31 not hooking up with more people that showed interest. Besides my two boyfriends every other guy has rejected me. They all seem interested for a while, get my number etc then all of a sudden they are not interested at all. This happens time and time again and my self confidence is totally shot. We all get shot down lots and it a shame before people even get to know us. Dont let it hurt your confidence and learn to love yourself. Ive seen all sorts of people with different body shapes and personalities able to get a partner but for some reason no one wants me. I dont know what it is about me I think im a normalish person, have a degree and play sport for my country. Im not hot but I dont think im thhaat ugly.. You sound like your a catch here, play sport for your country that is awesome. That makes u probably fit with a cute bum or something like that. Does anyone else have this problem? Yep there is thousands of us in the coping threads here. Some of wiser than others but we all need a pickup. I think im better looking than most people and on top of this im super humble too. I hope this makes sense to someone. Sorry if it doesn't. Im upset so rambling. Im so tired of being rejected ALL the time. I used to have confidence but now I hate my self and im convinced there is something wrong with me or I wouldnt get rejected all the time. There is nothing wrong with you, give it time and your chance will come. Today I feel so sad. There was this guy i was very interested in. He asked for my number, asked me out, said he really liked me etc then all of a sudden he says hes not interested and doesn't want a gf His loss and again typical for young idiots Whats so wrong with me? Why does this keep happening Im so sad and lonely nothing is wrong with you, ok some guys rejected but im sure there is a million guys out there waiting.
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