bhweller Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 "We know what we see, hear, feel, and can compare and contrast a loved one's movements, uneasiness, changed habits, lies -- yes, we can tell they are lying, but we don't know About What, or What the Truth is! The fact of the matter is that Communication is through a lot more than Just VERBAL communication!!! So WHY we choose to believe the words they espouse, and ignore the rest of what their body language is, I do not know." very well put. you knew they were up to something and your gut told you all you needed to know. However, you should have dumped them as soon as you had this realization, or else you would have to accept some sort of non-monogamous relationship. You always know before you know, if you get my drift.
Trialbyfire Posted September 19, 2009 Posted September 19, 2009 The romanticist in me needed the proof to break the wedding vows. I can't walk from a marriage without hard proof. Those vows were said before all I held dear, including, at the time, God. The pragmatist in me needed the proof, for leverage. If I had to do it all over again, I would still get hard proof. It was well worth the cost and short-term taxation on my emotional well-being, for the long-term gains. It not only allowed me to deconstruct the marriage, but to deconstruct him as a man worth being in love with.
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