jenebear81 Posted September 10, 2009 Posted September 10, 2009 I have been with this guy for about 2 months now. we get along great...things have progressed nicely and naturally. It started off with us going for walks...and a few dates. Then he started sleeping over. He would always text me with nice words and xoxoxo's. He calls me everyday and always asks questions about me and seems sincere. He has even told me that he loves me very much. I am starting to freak out this week for some unknown reason because the romantic texts have decreased (but we still talk on the phone everynight), he has not told me he loves at all since the first time, and even though I just saw him on sunday I am also freaking that he has not mentioned getting together yet for this week. He has been busy with work. I am also mad that I have never met any of his friends. Someone please tell me that I am crazy before I sabotage the crap out of this potentially long lasting great relationship.
Island Girl Posted September 10, 2009 Posted September 10, 2009 You are crazy. Now stop before you sabotage this relationship. On a serious note you do need to relax. You have known this guy 2 months. Just let it progress the way it is going to and don't get so caught up in the "markers". I'm sure an occasion will happen where you'll get to meet a friend or two - and he may not have mentioned plans this week because the relationship is moving to the "we'll be spending time together that's a given" assumptive phase. Just get hold of yourself and do not let your insecurities run away with your head.
Author jenebear81 Posted September 10, 2009 Author Posted September 10, 2009 yep I totally know I am crazy lol. I have never been like this in my life! so strange...really just need some people to tell me that I am crazy so I can relax
Island Girl Posted September 10, 2009 Posted September 10, 2009 yep I totally know I am crazy lol. I have never been like this in my life! so strange...really just need some people to tell me that I am crazy so I can relax On a side note just make sure that being so worried about his behavior hasn't changed yours. There is always a Yin and Yang. If you become more hesitant or worried then he may feel that or see it in your actions and change his behavior as well. Years ago one of my friends was complaining about her man not doing what he used to -- so I asked her if she was doing what she used to - and no she wasn't at all. Gone were the little notes to him or the little special things she used to do. She had slacked off and so had he -- so she couldn't put all those eggs in his basket.
Author jenebear81 Posted September 10, 2009 Author Posted September 10, 2009 anyone else think i am crazy?
Author jenebear81 Posted September 10, 2009 Author Posted September 10, 2009 great advice island girl
Island Girl Posted September 10, 2009 Posted September 10, 2009 great advice island girl Thanks. Now calm down, breathe - and remember - you are attractive, fun, smart, etc. why the hell would he slack off?? He'd be crazy not to try to whisk you away to Vegas and marry him so he could have you forever. Confidence girlfriend. Confidence.
lammie Posted September 10, 2009 Posted September 10, 2009 Oh jenebear i am as crazy as you!! I'm seeing a wonderful guy but my insecurities took the better side of me, we've slept together way too soon, was in fear that he'll lose interest. Started to get all paranoid that he hasn't been calling/texting/cudding as much as before. I know it's just me and I stress myself out!!
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