CARL45 Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 Has anybody ever tried just trying to smile at every attractive woman they come by. I read about it in a book. And I have been doing it ever since and it cracks me up, well firstly because I am a kind of introvert. So I don't really talk to people that much. But ever since I read a book about dating and it talked about smiling at any women you find attractive. It has become addictive. I just cannot stop giving a smile to a women I find attractive. I mean sometimes you get a smile back, sometimes you don't get one, but its always interesting to see what people do. Some women give you a big smile, some give you a muted half smile and one actually said hi to me. The women that give the most smiles are older women. I always wonder why. But maybe because they are not seen as attractive or treated as nicely as younger women.Has anyone else tried this? and also what else should I be doing:)
ReturnToSender Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 I instinctively smile at people as I pass them...male or female. and if Im in a particularly good mood, and they seem to be too, Ill blurt out "hii" Not only does it make me feel good...hey, any reason to smile is a good one..hah! But its something that could make someones day in a way you dont even realize. Sooo, yeah, while I dont use it as a pick up method or anything...it generally puts some "feel good" in you that comes off attractive, cause as you may know...someone may notice you from afar before you are close enough to cross paths...so general feel good vibes really is a good thing.
Lizzie60 Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 I also smile a lot.. to both men and women... amazing the response you get.. it's all good.. and a smile doesn't cost a thing.. and it makes people happy...
Lishy Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 I think older women smile back because they are more confident Its good to smile!
Woggle Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 This is a good way to get maced and slapped.
CaliGuy Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 Has anybody ever tried just trying to smile at every attractive woman they come by. I read about it in a book. And I have been doing it ever since and it cracks me up, well firstly because I am a kind of introvert. So I don't really talk to people that much. But ever since I read a book about dating and it talked about smiling at any women you find attractive. It has become addictive. I just cannot stop giving a smile to a women I find attractive. I mean sometimes you get a smile back, sometimes you don't get one, but its always interesting to see what people do. Some women give you a big smile, some give you a muted half smile and one actually said hi to me. The women that give the most smiles are older women. I always wonder why. But maybe because they are not seen as attractive or treated as nicely as younger women.Has anyone else tried this? and also what else should I be doing:) Yes. Yes it works well, even if you aren't trying to get a date. It works because people who SMILE are HAPPY and APPROACHABLE. Have you ever bumped into someone attractive and not smiled at them? They don't smile at you either. Someone has to make the first move, why not you? Women should do this more often towards men they are attracted to and vice versa. Makes KNOWING who "might" be interested in you a lot easier to figure out. PS: I think you should smile anyway. It's good practice and its good CBT. Practice being happy = make you think you are happy = eventually leading to being happy.
BUENG1 Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 This is a good way to get maced and slapped. I smile at people at random people all the time, no one is ever pissed. Where are you from?
The Collector Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 Look at the posters of men girls put on their bedroom walls,or women choose for their avatars. They are not smiling. They look mean and moody. earn a smile and you'll get a big one, I'm not giving them away for free.
Pyro Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 This is a good way to get maced and slapped. Easy there Debbie Downer. Smiling does go along ways. It shows confidence and that you are a warm and kind person....for the most part.
Lishy Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 Look at the posters of men girls put on their bedroom walls,or women choose for their avatars. They are not smiling. They look mean and moody. earn a smile and you'll get a big one, I'm not giving them away for free. yeah but you look like a serial killer C hahhahhahahha Smile man, it looks much better! :)
Lishy Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 This is a good way to get maced and slapped. Are you confusing smiling with flashing your privates? hahhahah I would not like to live where you do if a smile causes that much grief lol
2sunny Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 the smile = the universal language! i have always smiled at most people - no matter the gender or the age. the reaction and interaction is priceless. always great results when i move through my day.
Gerhard Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 Has anybody ever tried just trying to smile at every attractive woman they come by. I read about it in a book. And I have been doing it ever since and it cracks me up, well firstly because I am a kind of introvert. So I don't really talk to people that much. But ever since I read a book about dating and it talked about smiling at any women you find attractive. It has become addictive. I just cannot stop giving a smile to a women I find attractive. I mean sometimes you get a smile back, sometimes you don't get one, but its always interesting to see what people do. Some women give you a big smile, some give you a muted half smile and one actually said hi to me. The women that give the most smiles are older women. I always wonder why. But maybe because they are not seen as attractive or treated as nicely as younger women.Has anyone else tried this? and also what else should I be doing:) It's a very good idea. However, two different guys could have the same intentions and do the same thing, yet get two completely different reactions out of the woman. So just because it works for a friend doesn't mean it's going to work for you (or vice versa).
bluewolf17 Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 I smile to random people all the time. Male and Female. But especially older folk. They like it.
The Collector Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 yeah but you look like a serial killer C hahhahhahahha Nah I gave that up back in the 80s. It's so passe now.
MissHollywood Posted September 10, 2009 Posted September 10, 2009 Not true in Asia. People should loosen up here. It must be something about the water. People just walk around with a scowl on their faces.
Meaplus3 Posted September 10, 2009 Posted September 10, 2009 The cat in my Siggy has a nice smile! Now on a serious note, I do think that smiling goes a long way. I think smiling makes a person feel good inside and sends off that feel good message to others that come in contact with them. And most often, when you smile at someone they smile back.. because you've sent them a feel good message. Smiles are good. I love to smile. Mea:)
Pyro Posted September 10, 2009 Posted September 10, 2009 The cat in my Siggy has a nice smile! Now on a serious note, I do think that smiling goes a long way. I think smiling makes a person feel good inside and sends off that feel good message to others that come in contact with them. And most often, when you smile at someone they smile back.. because you've sent them a feel good message. Smiles are good. I love to smile. Mea:) I miss the monkey smile.
Meaplus3 Posted September 10, 2009 Posted September 10, 2009 I miss the monkey smile. Well, he went back to the zoo! I'm sure he is smiling over there. Mea:)
zilverenvlinder Posted September 10, 2009 Posted September 10, 2009 I smile at everyone! If I'm alone walking and someone passes me I usually say "Hi" or "Whats up". One day at work some random girl I've never talked to before walks by me, and I smiled at her, and she said, "You know, you always say hi to me or smile at me whenever I see you. It's really nice. What makes you happy all the time?" I laughed. If she only knew...
Woggle Posted September 10, 2009 Posted September 10, 2009 I smile at people at random people all the time, no one is ever pissed. Where are you from? I treat strange women on the street as if they don't exist and I advise men to do the same. Look at them the wrong way and all of a sudden you are looked at as some creep trying to violate her.
SoulSearch_CO Posted September 10, 2009 Posted September 10, 2009 Some women give you a big smile, some give you a muted half smile and one actually said hi to me. The women that give the most smiles are older women. I always wonder why. But maybe because they are not seen as attractive or treated as nicely as younger women.Has anyone else tried this? and also what else should I be doing:) Confidence and security. It builds the older you get.
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