brown_cow_eyez Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 I have been dating a guy I met back in June. We dated for about 2 months then he got mad at me and started ignoring me so we broke up. Then about 2 weeks ago he comes back into my life asking me for a second chance. I was/am so in love with him I jumped at the chance to have him back in my life so we talked for 2 days and everything seemed to be going fine, then out of no where he started ignoring me again. I sent him an email telling him he wasnt what I thought I wanted that taking him back I had hoped something had changed. So I guess a day or two later he IMs me back saying the following (Going to call him boy) boy: (09/05/2009 2:59 AM):look i dont know what is going through my mind right now I am sorry for acting like i was trying to blow you off or ignore you i dont know what i was thinking me: (09/05/2009 3:00 AM):Yea.. when u figure you it out let me know boy: (09/05/2009 3:01 AM):well you aint gotta be a bitch about it this is really beating me up about all this me: (09/05/2009 3:02 AM):okay its pretty damn simple STOP leading me around like a blind dog and I wont be a bitch about it.. be real me: (09/05/2009 3:02 AM):tell m e what it is thats the problem me: (09/05/2009 3:03 AM):there are two choices..you want me or you dont boy: (09/05/2009 3:04 AM):i do but at the same time in the back of my head i keep thinking that you dont derserve someone like me me: (09/05/2009 3:04 AM):lol I dont deserve you? boy: (09/05/2009 3:05 AM):not what i meant i dont derserve you me: (09/05/2009 3:06 AM):want me to be str8 with you? me: (09/05/2009 3:07 AM):the you that acts like you give a ****.. I love.. THIS you.. I cant stand. So he drove to my house and told me that he wanted to be with me etc,etc I said "alright boy but this is the last time I can do this" But now it seems like hes doing it again. When he left he promised to call, he didnt but he did email me with a ttys I miss you. I havent heard from him in 3 days again.. Im not sure whats going on.. if hes got another girl and Im just on the backburner. Anyone have any advice.. I mean should I just let this fish swim even though I do really care about him? Nancy
dreamergrl Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 You keep giving him chances, which gives him the green light to continue to act this way. Could be another girl, could be he doesn't know what he wants - that doesn't matter. What matters is you need to set your boundaries and stick to them. Quit taking him back. Go NC.
boogieboy Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 Sounds like a classic scenario, he is either getting played with by his ex, or some other women that is hot and cold with him. You are on the backburner. Drop him like a hot potato.
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