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Does he want me or not or is he afraid


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I am a 38 year old attractive women with a great career and life; and yes I'm very attractive. I work out regularly and take care of myself. I'm 5'8", 125lbs and eat right.

 

I met this younger man online and immediately began a sexual relationship. It is awesome! I don't want a boyfriend, but I do want someone to have regualar fun with... I don't care what he does when I'm not with him, but I do want to spend my free time playing with him. He seems interested, by sending me sexy emails. When he invites me over, I come over happily, but a few weekends ago I asked him to come to a fancy hotel I was staying for an event, he did not respond. Then a few days later he asked if I was seeing other men. I said "no" and he asked me over and we had a great time. A few days later he asked if I could come over and I couldn't due to work and he was annoyed that I might have another man to play with.

 

He complains that I'm playing games; why? It is a great relationship with no expectations. Can some man explain?

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No surprise. In a FWB relationship one party often wants more, even though the rules at the beginning was no commitment.

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I want more time, but not a commitment. I don't care who he sees during the week or the weekends I can't see him. Isn't this a man's dream come true and why is he so worried about who else I see? This should be so simple.

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I want more time, but not a commitment. I don't care who he sees during the week or the weekends I can't see him. Isn't this a man's dream come true and why is he so worried about who else I see? This should be so simple.

 

What can I say.......Some men get possesive. Other men cheat, and deceive just to get sex. The world is a crazy place.

 

Look that's me in the pic. Fly over to Hong Kong and I'll give you a good time, no strings attached. ;)

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OP I think it's wrong to assume that just because he's a man that it means he wants a non committed relationship.

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