compre11111 Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 Okay, I'm not necessarily sold on gifts for something like a 1 month anniversary of dating. I know people who have bought jewelry for that kind of thing, and I don't think it's a good idea. At the same time, I want to do something a bit more special than dinner and a movie, particularly since our relationship has gotten pretty intense lately. We're definitely not talking about marriage yet, but we're also way beyond the "entry level" dating stage -- so much so that we spent almost the entire weekend together, and we talk about future plans all the time. So, I'm thinking of picking up a CD of the jazz artist that we went to see on our first date. No flower bouquets, no jewelry, nothing like that. Just a CD that's specific to our first date. What do you think? Sweet? Corny? Too much or too little? For full disclosure, I won't necessarily change my plan based on the comments I get here, but I'm just curious as to what people -- particularly girls -- would think about getting something like that.
JustLooking123 Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 The CD sounds fine. Not to be negative, but is a 1-month "anniversary" really even worth celebrating? You hardly even know the person yet. Do people really buy expensive jewelry for a one month anniversary?!?!? I don't mean that as a criticism of you, compre, more of a general wondering.
bluewolf17 Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 I don't think I have celebrated month-aversary's since I was 16:). But I think it's really sweet of you to think of getting her something. I think the CD is a fine idea.
alexlakeman Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 One month??? No way, don't waste your $... I'd be broke over celebrating one month anniversaries, lol:D
Author compre11111 Posted September 9, 2009 Author Posted September 9, 2009 Well, the CD is 10 bucks. Even if we were to break up next week, a 10 dollar CD isn't a big loss for me. Not that I'm a wealthy guy, but I can survive. It's not so much about saving the money as it is about the message that is being sent. I'm not generally a fan of gift-giving, especially early on, because I believe it sends the message that you're trying to buy affection. But I'm also a big believer in romantic gestures.....especially random and spontaneous gestures. Perhaps the CD would be a better gift on a random date later in the month as opposed to being on our actual 1-month anniversary? That's a valid argument. I don't like being too formal with these things, so perhaps it's better suited for a later time. But "wasting money" is not the concern. I'm definitely opposed to going all out with jewelry or something expensive for such an anniversary. My friend is planning a day trip to a spa and all kinds of stuff for her 1-month, and I think that's a bit much. It seems almost desperate, although I guess it really depends on the situation. They're madly in love after only 1 month, so I guess it's something that makes sense for their situation. For us, going overboard would probably raise some red flags, and it would be out of the ordinary. Which is why I figured a single long-stem rose or a CD would be an appropriate middle ground between being romantic, and going too far. Perhaps a bottle of champagne after dinner may be a better solution. It's not really a gift, per se, but it is celebratory and romantic.
EsmerKiss7 Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 I think a CD is a good idea. Some of the best gifts I received were more from the heart or thought than anything, and the fact that it's the jazz artist you guys saw on your date and she likes them is sweet. I think you should fancy it up a little tho, your atleast gonna wrap it right? or a cute ribbon bow around it, lol. Actually I think the ribbon around it may be more suited, it says it's a special gift but not overboard.. lol, idk.
MSUE Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 its just a month...I see no need to celebrate I find it a tad silly and cheesy...6 months maybe...a year absolutely...but if you feel the need then go for it
dreamergrl Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 One month since going exclusive, or since the very first date?
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