alexlakeman Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 Hmm, so 60 day g/f "surprises" me today when I got out of the office ... we chatted, whatever, said she missed me.. she does work within 10-15 minutes from my office, but I am on the fence whether this is psycho'ish or ?? What do you guys think?
Jersey Shortie Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 I think you are a pyscho for having an issue with this. It's not like she works an hour from you. Let me ask you this, are you already sleeping together? Because if you are and you are seriously complaining that your gf missed you and came to see you, but your okay with the kind of intimacy it takes to sleep together, you got issues of your own.
CarrieT Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 I think you are a pyscho for having an issue with this. It's not like she works an hour from you. Let me ask you this, are you already sleeping together? Because if you are and you are seriously complaining that your gf missed you and came to see you, but your okay with the kind of intimacy it takes to sleep together, you got issues of your own. Concur completely.
bluewolf17 Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 Hmm, so 60 day g/f "surprises" me today when I got out of the office ... we chatted, whatever, said she missed me.. she does work within 10-15 minutes from my office, but I am on the fence whether this is psycho'ish or ?? What do you guys think? So what's the problem?
reservoirdog1 Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 Hmm, so 60 day g/f "surprises" me today when I got out of the office ... we chatted, whatever, said she missed me.. she does work within 10-15 minutes from my office, but I am on the fence whether this is psycho'ish or ?? What do you guys think? Personally, I love hearing that kind of thing. I had a woman say that to me once after knowing each other for about two weeks and seeing each other twice. Then it was probably just hormones. But in your case? Hell, it's been two months. She's allowed to miss you. On the basis of what you've written, I don't see anything suggesting she's a bunny boiler. Enjoy it.
Author alexlakeman Posted September 9, 2009 Author Posted September 9, 2009 Personally, I love hearing that kind of thing. I had a woman say that to me once after knowing each other for about two weeks and seeing each other twice. Then it was probably just hormones. But in your case? Hell, it's been two months. She's allowed to miss you. On the basis of what you've written, I don't see anything suggesting she's a bunny boiler. Enjoy it. An unbiased , intelligent response, out of four...thanks..
JustLooking123 Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 I have a bit of a different idea. How much do you like this girl? After two months, you should have already screened for any overt red flags or other instances of obvious "psycho" behavior. The fact that you're so suspicious over this one event (which seems completely normal from the way you describe it), makes me wonder if you have other concerns about her, or if you're questioning your interest in her. Eh?
kizik Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 Yeah dude she wanted to f*ck. You blew it. But you didn't.
kizik Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 An unbiased , intelligent response, out of four...thanks.. BTW, all those unintelligent posters have been here much longer than you so show some RESPECT, BOY
Rudderless Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 Why did it creep you out? Maybe it wasn't just the surprise, is there anything else that's making you feel uncomfortable?
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