livingnightmare Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 Ok well after the ups n downs of the last few weeks found out my ex dumped my daughter of at someones house who has been done 4 child neglect she done this so she could go shag some guy she met on friday ! to cut the story short I spat a dirty spit dwn her mouth and slapped the whore now she wnt let me see my daughter or no where she is or even speak 2 her on the phone! Yes i shoudnt hav done that but she has mentally abused me for over 3 yrs now and has made this split the most confusing depressed time in my life now im going mad and just want to hunt her down what shall i do i live in the uk!
Author livingnightmare Posted September 8, 2009 Author Posted September 8, 2009 Anyone??? Im gonna go on like John Rambo soon?
Author livingnightmare Posted September 8, 2009 Author Posted September 8, 2009 Thats it no advice? here we go, off to reak havok!
lupa Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 Ok, seriously, if you want help, you're going to have to repost, using english, so we can understand what in the hell you're talking about. I'm not messing around, I didn't understand a single thing you wrote.
deux ex machina Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 Ok well after the ups n downs of the last few weeks found out my ex dumped my daughter of at someones house who has been done 4 child neglect she done this so she could go shag some guy she met on friday ! to cut the story short I spat a dirty spit dwn her mouth and slapped the whore now she wnt let me see my daughter or no where she is or even speak 2 her on the phone! Yes i shoudnt hav done that but she has mentally abused me for over 3 yrs now and has made this split the most confusing depressed time in my life now im going mad and just want to hunt her down what shall i do i live in the uk! "Okay, well. After the ups and downs of the last few weeks, I found out my ex left my daughter at someone's home who had [gotten in trouble for] child neglect. She did this so she could shag some guy she met on Friday! To cut a long story short, I spat down her mouth and slapped the whore. Now, she won't let me see my daughter, know where she is, or speak to her on the phone! Yes, I should not have done it, but she mentally abused me for over three years - and has made this split the most confusing, depressed time of my life. Now I'm going mad. I want to hunt her down. What shall I do? I live in the UK."
deux ex machina Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 Ok, seriously, if you want help, you're going to have to repost, using english, so we can understand what in the hell you're talking about. I'm not messing around, I didn't understand a single thing you wrote. Hey lupa. I don't know how much my translation helped as far as understanding goes... O_O But I tried.
Author livingnightmare Posted September 9, 2009 Author Posted September 9, 2009 anyone else want a shot at it?
JohnnyBlaze Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 Talk to your divorce lawyer. What's your legal status with your daughter? If you can prove to this lady that you're the legal guardian and she is still concealing your daughter from you, there's a possibility of filing kidnapping charges against her. Even if the charge won't hold up in court, it's unlikely that she'll want to risk losing the next fifteen years of her life just for the sake of whizzing in your corn flakes.
georgia girl Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 You didn't like the baby sitter your ex chose so you thought you would spit in her mouth and slap her. Now, you're wondering why she doesn't want you around her daughter? Figure it out. You struck someone without provocation. She has every right to protect herself and her child, even from you. If you have a problem with the babysitter, call your attorney and have him deal with her alleged irresponsible choice of a babysitter in family court. And quit assaulting people.
tinktronik Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 You didn't like the baby sitter your ex chose so you thought you would spit in her mouth and slap her. Now, you're wondering why she doesn't want you around her daughter? Figure it out. You struck someone without provocation. She has every right to protect herself and her child, even from you. If you have a problem with the babysitter, call your attorney and have him deal with her alleged irresponsible choice of a babysitter in family court. And quit assaulting people. ditto.....
Art_Critic Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 If you spit in her mouth and slapped her in front of your child then you yourself are guilty of child neglect in the first/second degree. Talk to your divorce lawyer.. it sounds like you both are causing issues that are interfering in each others lives... While I wouldn't want my child to be placed in the care of someone convicted of child neglect like she placed your child in care of.. I also wouldn't want my child in the care of someone who spits/slaps women and calls the mother of their own child a whore..
Author livingnightmare Posted September 9, 2009 Author Posted September 9, 2009 It wasnt in front of my child, and she realy provoked me she slept with this guy 2 hurt me and boasted about it all the gory details knowing how much hurt she has caused already!
Author livingnightmare Posted September 9, 2009 Author Posted September 9, 2009 and georgia girl MY DAUGHTER the daughter that the ex has ripped her world apart she is badly upset from this split her family unit has been ruined!
deux ex machina Posted September 11, 2009 Posted September 11, 2009 It wasnt in front of my child, and she realy provoked me she slept with this guy 2 hurt me and boasted about it all the gory details knowing how much hurt she has caused already! and georgia girl MY DAUGHTER the daughter that the ex has ripped her world apart she is badly upset from this split her family unit has been ruined! There is no reason her life will be ruined, unless you and the ex make sure it ends up that way. The suggestions in this thread are to go to the disinterested third party (the lawyer), who can actually advice on what you can do - legally - and then do it. No matter the provocation, it is unacceptable to go around slapping and spitting on people. Since you and the ex can't seem to treat each other with basic civility for the child's sake, please figure out a way, through the courts, to protect your rights as a parent -- while at the same time, minimizing contact between you and the ex - at least for some time. Please know that there truly is a future, without your ex in it, that is worth living for. You have to get through this mess. Doing it with your dignity intact will reap rewards for you in the future, this much I promise you. 1
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