Balder Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 Hi, My girlfriend has birthday after several days and I have decided to surprise her. I'm going to hire a room in a nice hotel and prepare it before going there. The main idea is that I want to sprinkle the bed and the floor with rose petals The problem is I'm going to be with her during the day and I'll have no time to do this. I'll have some free time around early afternoon but if I sprinkle the bed so early the petals will become dry or will decay. Give me an idea how can I prevent the rose petals to decay so fast.
Trialbyfire Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 While it's really sweet and romantic that you want to do this, why not just get her some flowers in a vase and put it in the room for her instead? This would be more practical so she can take the flowers home afterwards and remember your romantic gesture.
TaraMaiden Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 Also, I hate to be the practical bi*tch, but have you any idea how irritating it will be for the hotel staff to clear them all up afterwards....? And crushed rose petals can leave rose-stains and it's actually very difficult to clean. carpet-wise.....and if it's a pale carpet..... It's a wonderfully romantic idea, and I'm not sure where you got it, but it could have been a movie or a book....and in both cases, you never see the build-up or the aftermath of the deed..... I'm sorry if we sound as if we're raining on your parade.... It's a charming thought, and a very loving one....
SoulSearch_CO Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 OK, this might sound a little tacky at first, bear with me. They have fake rose petals that actually look pretty real, if you'd be interested in that. I used those once for an anniversary and it looked beautiful. He thought they were real until he picked one up. But if you're deadset on real ones, they have preservant stuff at craft stores called silica gel. I have no idea how it works or what it does, but you could look into it. Sounds like a lot of work to me. You could turn the AC on high after you leave to keep the room super cooled. LOL But that won't be much fun for getting nekkid.
TaraMaiden Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 Oh I dunno... if you're nekkid and together, and it's cold, how would YOU keep warm.....?
SoulSearch_CO Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 Well, it's difficult to pull the clothing off when it's too cold. LOL I'd be under the covers shivering - fully clothed. Well, on second thought - does this room have a jacuzzi?
Cora Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 Well, I don't have any ideas for you on how to preserve the rose petals. One of my cousins ex boyfriends did this for her once. Sprinkled the petals all over the bed and around the jacuzzi, had candles and the whole nine yards. My cousin loved it so much that she had to take pictures of the whole room and it was all she could tell me about. I'm not sure how he managed to preserve the petals, although I think the room was arranged not long before he surprised her with it so that could be why. Best of luck though whatever you do!
Ruby Slippers Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 Talk to the hotel manager. I'm sure they can arrange for someone to do this shortly before your arrival.
CarrieT Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 Don't the let wet blankets rain on your parade! Go for the real ones. Hotel stains be damned (they have cleaned up a lot worse). It is a lovely, romantic gesture that will be remembered and appreciated for years to come. It is a lovely gesture...
TaraMaiden Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 CarrieT, you know what....? You're right. He shouldn't let us put him off. So I've changed my mind. go for the maddest gesture you can... then double it. And asking someone to do this for you, is not a bad idea..... either.
Lucky_One Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 They aren't going to dry up or decay in a span of, say, 6 hours or so. They will be fine. Using silica gel to dry petals would take days, and you will get dried up rose petals. If you are really worried about stains, use pale pink rose petals, or the silk ones (you can find them in craft stores that sell bridal goods). I think it's a lovely idea. She will love it!
Trialbyfire Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 Has anyone within this thread, tried this before? If so, you wouldn't be encouraging it...
CarrieT Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 Has anyone within this thread, tried this before? If so, you wouldn't be encouraging it... Yes, it was done for me and I thought it was lovely. Why do you think it should not be encouraged?
Lucky_One Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 Yes, but not with real ones. He used silk. I will never forget it, actually.
Trialbyfire Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 Yes, it was done for me and I thought it was lovely. Why do you think it should not be encouraged?If you've experienced it, what did you find when it happened?
Jersey Shortie Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 OP, it's a very romantic idea but I think it's something that is cliche and over used and whlie your girlfriend might go "aww", it might not have the motional impact you want it to. I like the idea of just putting flowers in a vase. She can take those home. Also, I personally suggest making a mixed cd of her favorite "soft" songs that you can play in the hotel during your get-a-way. I have a feeling that would impress her more then the rose petals on the bed idea. That's more of a Hollywood thing.
SierraRose Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 I am a floral designer by trade. My suggestion is to turn the air conditioner on in the room. The petals will be just fine; it also doesn't matter what color rose u use. I would suggest removing the petals BEFORE you go to the room (preferably at home), otherwise you will have one heck of a mess! No need to have a pail full of rose stems hanging out in the room-not to mention leaves on the rug! Remove all the petals, and place them in a zip lock bag. Do not mist! They will get mushy! Refrigerate until u are ready to decorate the room. They do best in on the middle shelf, avoiding any areas that have a tendency to freeze produce.
Rudderless Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 The poor guy didn't ask for opinions on the gesture, perhaps his partner really likes these kinds of gestures, whether it's perceived by others as a cliche, or impractical or not. Some of you are coming across as overly cynical and mean spirited. Back to answering the question, perhaps an idea to overcome the impracticality would be to use imitations on the floor and the bed and to give her a bunch of real roses to take home with her. Either way, it's nice to hear someone doing something quite sweet for their partner and I'm sure your partner will like the thought.
sand26 Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 I've done this. If it's a nice hotel the concierge will do it for you while you are out. Here is a little thing I like to do with rose petals: Put a few on her body and slowly blow on them so they drift up/down her torso.... I've never had it done to me, but it creates goosebumps on my lovers... don't over do it, just at the beginning of your romantic time it can be a fun, teasing form of foreplay. Also, maybe have the concierge place her favorite bottle of wine or champagne in the room. And write something for her, women like to hear love. The mood is set for women through auditory means. good luck. the mfk
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 I say go for it! Just call the hotel first, and let them know what you want to do and see if they have a problem with it. I doubt they will, but they will respect a customer who is up front like that.
Author Balder Posted September 9, 2009 Author Posted September 9, 2009 Thanks for the oppinions and ideas. Maybe I'll skip the rose petals and will just place lots of flowers in the room. Or maybe I'll talk to the hotel manager. The day is this saturday and I will tell you the result after that
MeadowGlitter Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 Thanks for the oppinions and ideas. Maybe I'll skip the rose petals and will just place lots of flowers in the room. Or maybe I'll talk to the hotel manager. The day is this saturday and I will tell you the result after that You should go with the rose petals! I really think it's a sweet and romantic gesture, something I don't think a lot of men would go through. I hope no one has put you off the idea. Anyhow, do let us know how it goes. Best of luck and I hope you both have a wonderful time together!
Lizzie60 Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 Thanks for the oppinions and ideas. Maybe I'll skip the rose petals and will just place lots of flowers in the room. Or maybe I'll talk to the hotel manager. The day is this saturday and I will tell you the result after that I think rose petals spread all over is tacky... I would much prefer a couple of nice huge bouquets at different places in the room.. (like each side of the bed) and one on the table at the end of the bed.. along with a nice bottle of champagne.. if you really want rose petals.. keep them for the bath tub.. along with candles and soft music..
Trialbyfire Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 For those of you who haven't tried it, not only does it become a squishy mess all over the bed AND the floor but more importantly, all over your bodies, unless you don't plan to excrete any bodily fluids or sweat. It's like making out on the beach...sounds romantic but the reality is that sand in private areas isn't a very comfortable or erotic experience.
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