katty774 Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 I wish I wouldn't dwell on Steve not contacting me the past 2 days but I do. I kept telling myself that NC was what I wanted and needed but now I miss him. Its weird how he came back into my life after Matt is out of my life. I still have not heard a word from Matt. Weird thing is nobody has. ITS as if he has fallen off the face of the earth. My mother admitted to me that she tried calling him because she was worried about him because his drugged out brother had made death threats to him. She was even more concerned because he never returned her message. I am trying to not worry about Matt. I thought maybe Steve would be a good distraction and keep me from contacting Matt but now honestly all I want to do is hear from Steve. I know I am one messed up individual
PinkToes Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 NC is definitely what you need, so please keep at it. It's never easy. And unfortunately, not hearing from Steve is only half the battle. You'll also need to be strong if you do hear from him -- in fact, that will probably be even more difficult. That's when you're going to have to remind yourself why it's a bad idea to have anything to do with him. *Let's review: 1) because he has a girlfriend, and 2) because you can't be 'just friends' with someone you have feelings for.* Stay strong. One day at a time. And please, please, please, if you hear from Steve, you need to tell him straight out that you can't be friends as long as he has a girlfriend. And you need to ask him to respect your feelings, and to not contact you again. I know it's tough, but you can do it. Hang in there.
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