mlh5046 Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 Was with some friends last Thursday. One girl in the group I was with was headed in the same direction as me after we left the bar we were at. I met her once before and never really talked to her. We seemed to hit it off. She eventually wanted to go to the same bar as me. She bought me some drinks, was holding my hand, grabbing my arm, and even "asked for my number" before she went the bathroom in case we got separated. She kept asking to drive me home but I lived like 2 blocks up the road (and I hadda throw up from all the shots), and I think she had other peeps to picks up. So I bounced after the bar. I wasn't mean. She's good looking, she seems smart. So I texted her 2 days later and told her to come to the place me and my roomates were headed. She never responded though. Im def interested in this girl, but I don't know the right course of action. Should I contact her next or let her? I mean she def was into me, I am the shyest guy ever and it takes a lot for me to admit it. I just don;t get why she ignored me.
xra Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 She definitely sounds like she was into you that night, but don't get too excited - many girls act a little too 'interested' when drunk... If she hasn't responded to your text, I'd say try to text her one more time. Who knows - maybe she missed it, maybe she forgot. If she doesn't respond again, she's not clearly interested and was just drunk and having fun that night.
sugarmomma Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 Call her (don't text, men are too dependent on texts)and ask her out on a PROPER date, not to come over to your place with a bunch of guys. Hellooo!!
JohnP82 Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 Ok, to me it sounds like she was trying to hook up with you that night. That may have been what she was looking for instead of dating. Just my opinion.
SoulSearch_CO Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 Call her (don't text, men are too dependent on texts)and ask her out on a PROPER date, not to come over to your place with a bunch of guys. Hellooo!! Uh, yeah. Dial in that number and hit the "call" button. I'd leave ONE vm and if you don't hear from her after that, I'd be done. She sounds a little casual...kind of like John said.
dreamergrl Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 Don't ask her out last minute like that. Put some time and thought into it. Maybe back off the shots next time so there's no
loveonline Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 She might be playing only. I mean she might be into you but things changes especially with women..They are unpredictable so you really dont know..Anyway since she has not replied in your text maybe she is no longer interested
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