Jack of Hearts Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 Okay, so I was recently talking to a very good female friend of mine (who just happens to be one of my ex's as well) about a woman I just met and started talking to. This situation is different only because its the first time I've ever began to date someone older than myself, I'm in my 20's, she's in her 30's. So I'm telling her about the couple times we've been out with mutual friends and how we're interacting, what I like about her, etc. The majority of my concern was trying to gauge her interest in me and I was explaining to her that sometimes when we're talking she seems nervous and a little fidgety. This usually would have signalled me that she wasn't that interested however she has never flaked on any invitation I've extended her, she calls/texts me often (but not too often) and she even wants me to go out of town with her in a couple of weeks, just the two of us. After trying to explain my concern about how I don't want to screw this up while trying to figure out if there is really any difference in dating a woman in her 20's than one in her 30's when this exchange over the phone happens: Friend: Well, ya know, you can be intimidating to women sometimes, but in a good way. Me: What? What does that mean? Friend: (Laughs) Just think about it, I gotta go. I'll talk to you later. (Laughs) So can anyone please shed some light on this? I have no idea what this means.
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