green apples Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 I find it difficult to get my friends to hook me up with their friends or people they know that would be compatible with me. It's not because my friends think I'm not good for their friends but they say they don't know anyone suitable or their other single friends are not good enough. They just say they would keep a lookout but they have come up with nothing. Is there really a dearth of good, eligible people or are people too possessive of their friends or do they just not like to play matchmaker?
Pyro Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 I'm personally not too fond of it because my friends have done that for other people and some of those relationships ended and the friend who played matchmaker got caught in the middle of it all and he felt like that both of them wanted him (my friend) to choose a side. too much drama for my liking.
Jersey Shortie Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 People are never as good as they think they are when it comes to playing match maker.
Hkizzle Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 All my decent friends are married, or in proper relationships. All my player friends are screwing around and have low moral values. I suspect your friends are in the same situation. They're just saving you from heartache. People always say decent people are hard to find. Of course, they're in steady relationships. The players however are always on the prowl so women feel there are more jerks than nice guys.
New Again Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 Pyro pretty much nailed it. I've also been in situations where a friend wanted me to hook him/her up with other friends of mine...the other friends aren't interested/don't find the other person attractive/etc....but you can't exactly tell your friend that you asked and your friend said he thought she was ugly or something.
Green Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 Yeah it isn't always so much the matchmaker, but people don't always want to be matched. Heck some one could want to play match maker and both matchs will refuse to go out with each other
Lizzie60 Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 Not everyone likes to play matchmaker.. maybe your friends can't think of anyone.. just be patient.. they're on the lookout.. as they say.. don't push it.. it's not THEIR JOB to find you someone.. I did match a couple once.. that was in 1991... they are still together and have 2 beautiful daughters.. The guy was working with me back then.. and the girl was my first ex second daughter.
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