Author caramel c Posted September 8, 2009 Author Posted September 8, 2009 Hey Caramel- trust me I know what you mean. I have hideous anger towards my ex. It's frustrating. But it's helping me get over it. By feeding my anger and whatnot it allows me to cope. I suggest you try the same. Be angry. You deserve to be angry. And being angry is better than pain any day. I think you are only a couple weeks ahead of me - you're at 3 months right? How long have you been going through this anger? I have to say though, even though it might be good to get it out, it doesn't exactly replace the pain. It just coincides with it. I am actually scared of my anger because I'm not used to it being this severe. I don't remember the last time I wanted to draw someone's blood with my nails. (omg)
silic0ntoad Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 Hey Caramel- Yeah, I am just hitting the 3 month point. Next week will be 90 days of NC. Quite a bit of time no less! The anger comes and goes. I am still like a caged bull. I dislike speaking about her to my friends and family. It makes me irate. To be honest, it's fading pretty fast. Just have to breathe and let go. I never wished her physical torment. Then again, I did wish her emotional grievance. If only to pay tribute to my lamentations. So, it will pass. With anything the only thing I can offer is this- time.
Author caramel c Posted September 9, 2009 Author Posted September 9, 2009 Hey Caramel- Yeah, I am just hitting the 3 month point. Next week will be 90 days of NC. Quite a bit of time no less! The anger comes and goes. I am still like a caged bull. I dislike speaking about her to my friends and family. It makes me irate. To be honest, it's fading pretty fast. Just have to breathe and let go. I never wished her physical torment. Then again, I did wish her emotional grievance. If only to pay tribute to my lamentations. So, it will pass. With anything the only thing I can offer is this- time. I hate time!
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