Baleedat Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 So I recently reconnected with an old childhood friend a couple months ago. Last time I saw her was about 5 years ago and I developed this huge crush for her at that time. My feelings eventually subsided but after randomly seeing her at the beach about a month ago those old feelings came rushing back. I invited her to a party that I through kinda expecting she wouldn't come. She ended up coming and we had a pretty good time. It's been about a month since that party and we haven't spoken since because she was on vacation. I invited her out again to a Labor Day BBQ my friends are throwing tomorrow and she responded "I would love to come to your bbq and hang out...". Is she interested? Either way, I'm planning on asking her out on a double date tomorrow. What do you guys think?
2sunny Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 take her to the BBQ, see how it goes. do not double date - have time alone with her to see how things go one on one.
Author Baleedat Posted September 14, 2009 Author Posted September 14, 2009 So here's a little recap of what's happened between me and this girl. She came to the Labor Day BBQ (alone) and we had a pretty good time. We chatted some and it definitely looked like she was eating up everything I was saying. She was laughing, maintaining eye contact, and touched/grabbed my arm a couple times during our conversation. That's always a good sign and I reciprocated by leading her up some stairs by the small of her back which she definitely did not mind. I wanted to isolate her somehow from the party but with everybody mingling and such the opportunity never presented itself. We hugged at the end of the night while everybody was leaving and I told her we should meet up again sometime soon. This brings us to last night. I live in a condo highrise where there is a wine bar in the corner of the building on the 1st floor. I was taking my dog out for his nightly walk and I usually walk around that corner. As I'm walking by the bar I hear my name, and sure enough it's the girl that I'm crazy about. She was having a girl's night out and she saw me walking past the window. We talked for a couple minutes and I resumed walking my dog and she went back to her friends. I received a text from her a few hours later that she and her friends were going to another bar and asked if I wanted to meet up. I was at another bar, near the area, but didn't get her text until she had already left for home. Sooo...all the signs so far are positive. I do think there is interest. She could've completely ignored me when I was walking by the bar and I would have never known that she was inside. What do you guys think? Either way, I'm asking her out in the next couple days. I just wanted to see how everyone else perceives this situation. Thanks.
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