loveslife Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 Isn't there a song about this? .... flaky women to the left of me, flaky women to the rght of me...and me, i'm stuck in the middle with youuuuuu.... but seriously, keep striving to be the best person you can be, and be yourself, and eventually you will find someone who clicks.
thegreatmoose Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 I've done the 2-3 days or even the next day thing with women, and have had them flake on me too. With these first dates I'm experimenting still a bit to gauge what's working and what's not. But what I find to be true is how soon or later you contact a woman has little effect if she already has a high interest level in you. If a woman is not interested after the first date, no matter when you call you will not get another date. Still, calling too soon might scare off some women that may have been otherwise interested. Experimenting could be a good idea, but you have to remember every woman is different. What one woman likes, the next woman may hate.
thegreatmoose Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 keep striving to be the best person you can be, and be yourself, and eventually you will find someone who clicks. It would be so nice if "be yourself" worked. It simiply doesn't work much of the time. He is probably being himself by asking for a second date at the end of a first date. He's most likey scared some women away by doing that. There are a lot of harsh realities in the dating world. A lot of things that are counterintuitive are what work. I too wish it were simpler as it would be much easier to date women, but I can't change reality.
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