runnergal Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 I was set up with this guy by mutual friends so I felt obliged to do so. I've been on MANY a date but this one goes down in the history books!! I will be laughing about this one til the day I die!!!!! He got here around 7:45...we stood inside talking for a minute...he didn't compliment me or anything....we went to get in his truck, he didn't even open my house door to leave OR the truck door....we get in the truck...I went to say something as he was cranking up and he cut me off to tell me that he heard the best song on the way over here (as he was turning the channels to EVERY country station!)...he was telling me that he heard Brad Paisley's Mud on the Tires and how we can got watch a sunset, split a six pack and get mud on the tires (yes, he said and he said 20 times during the night!!!)..... we then get to Matty's and things were going ok...and of course, he was the one who was doing most of the talking as usual......so we ate and then walked to Uptown...we were sitting at a booth and he started telling me how HOT and SEXY I am (yes, he did that!!)....he then told me I had the prettiest eyebrows (no, I didn't mistype!!!)......so, I FINALLY get a moment to tell him a story that was like 2-3 minutes long and he was looking at me weird so I asked him why he was looking at me like that and he asked me if I ever shut up and started laughing (yep, he did that too!)....so we go outside to listen to the band and we were sitting at a big table.....this young girl, Ashley, comes over to our table and just starts talking to us, neither of us knew her...she sat by me, which is fine.... so then he starts trying to hold my hand!!!....then her roommates came out there....there was a really trashy one (she was high on the purse full of pills she had) she pulled a chair over to the other side of him and sits RIGHT by him and they start talking (yep, he did that too!!!)...so we stayed til about 12:00 and when we stood up to leave I heard that girl ask for his phone number and YUP he gave it to her!!!!!!!!!!!...I didn't say a word....so while we were walking back to his truck he said he didn't know why she would ask for it and I said you gave it to her so she must have gotten the idea somehow that you wanted her to have it in the first place (i was laughing while I said it cause I SURE didn't want him!!)..... so then we get back to my condo (he was flipping stations the whole way back!!!)....he walks me inside and goes to use my bathroom, which was fine, while i took chip outside...when I came back in, he was sitting on MY couch and had helped himself to a glass of MY water!!!!!...I sat down on the couch and he started running his fingers through my hair telling me how soft it was, I told him it's called conditioner!!! LMAO!!!!! So once he figured out that he wasn't getting ANYTHING from me, he sat straight up and said "I'M GOING!!"....honey, I couldn't get to the door FAST enough to let him out!!!!!! I almost jumped over the couch to get to the door!! LMAO!!! He went to hug me and I, of course, hugged him back BUT as I did, he kissed me on the neck!!! (EEEEWWW!!!!) :sick::sick::sick Needless to say, when I told my friends about the date, they were in shock and will NEVER set me up again!!!!!!! LMAO!!!!!
kizik Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 I would love to read this and laugh but my eyeballs just exploded.
looking4 green grass Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 hehehehe Excellent. The creepy ones never go away though. Does he have your number?? Yikes! hahaha
V.Vixen Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 Wow. You let that guy in? My thoughts exactly. I rarely let a guy I really like inside on the first date, but I am super careful about stuff like that. Sorry you had such a rough date.. he sounds like a grade A D-bag!
Hkizzle Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 Just one thing I don't get. You said he didn't compliment you at your place, but he was also wrong to say you're hot and sexy at the resturant? I know his wording is not exactly dating 101 stuff, but what type of compliment you expect at your home?
xpaperxcutx Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 At least he had the courtesy to walk himself out the door. It's the ones that don't leave that are the problem.
Author runnergal Posted September 7, 2009 Author Posted September 7, 2009 What I meant by "compliment" was that most guys will tell you that you look nice or something to that affect. And as far as letting him in my home, we have mutual friends that set us up and I had met him before at a restaurant/bar when all of us were hanging out. TOTAL LOSER!!!!!!!
Jaytb Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 sounds like a nice, funny, caring, and charming guy. Should totally ask him to marry you right now. :bunny:
boogieboy Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 You sat next to him on the couch and let him run his fingers though your hair? Then you let him hug you? Why?
runner Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 kissed you on the neck--maybe he tried to give you a hicky [and hello runnergal, i'm runnerguy ]
Author runnergal Posted September 7, 2009 Author Posted September 7, 2009 Boogie, I sat down on the couch and moved next to me and started to put his fingers in my hair. He quickly removed when I smarted off to him. I only hugged him to get him out of there!!! Runnerguy, I had to go wash my neck with HOT water and lye soap!! LMAO It's nice to meet you, Runnerguy!!!
EmmaLou Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 Bless you! It sounds like something out of a comedy show.. especially when he said you talked too much after you'd had your first chance to tell a story.. This is why I would never go on a blind date, you never know what you're in for!
Kamille Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 Bless you! It sounds like something out of a comedy show.. especially when he said you talked too much after you'd had your first chance to tell a story.. This is why I would never go on a blind date, you never know what you're in for! Yeah that bit was hilarious ! What with the radio channel surfing and the keep your conversation to 10 seconds soundbites, it sounds like your date had a major case of A.D.D. The sofa thing also had me cringing but it's happened to me in the past. It's weird how clear you have to be that you're not interested in a guy when you're not interested because some will pretend to not notice the difference between you being polite and you being into them. I was in a very similar scenario in the past: a friend of friends (who was also an acquaintance of mine), asked me out on a date at a bar, then walked me home. He was quite drunk so when we got there he asked me if he could use my bathroom. I mean, what can you do really? Say "No, but you may pee in the bush over there?".
CarrieT Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 My only question is -- Why the heck you let this go on for over FOUR HOURS? I would have figured out a way to bail way before midnight...
Jersey Shortie Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 You had a bad date, we all do. Unfortunetly, now he knows where you live.
caramel c Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 Lol, wow. That is a funny story. On a serious note, why in the world would you let him in your home though? The fact that you had mutual friends is why it was ok to you? I mean, it's a good idea not to invite him in on a first date even if you ARE interested, but if you're not even interested in the slightest because he acted like a fool, why would he end up inside your home after the date?
loveslife Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 At the very least, when you got back from walking your dog you should have stood by the front door and said you had an early day the next day and need to go to sleep. I'm also confused why it went on so long.
boogieboy Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 At the very least, when you got back from walking your dog you should have stood by the front door and said you had an early day the next day and need to go to sleep. I'm also confused why it went on so long. Thats my point, stand by the door, dont sit next to him, dont hug him, youre not going to date him again,so why let him get away with things?
dreamergrl Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 I'd been long gone - hours ago. To wash my hair or something.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 The described date gets about a 1.80 on the true scale of "dates from hell", where 10 is worst. There were no natural disasters, nobody spilled anything on you, and while your date's manners were somewhat ill, you'd better save the "date from hell" label for those who really rate it.
2sure Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 In a previous life I was a serial dater, so I have a few stories. I knew I was getting jaded when I started saying "And don't even tell me you need to use the bathroom" while we pulled into my driveway.
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