Lucky555 Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 After we had a talk about how to proceed with the relationship (not official) i thought things would just happen naturally. How about NO! I have talked to him..no mention of any going out. I already put it out there to let me know. Well he isn't letting me know and I'm afraid I don't think he is going to ask me out. I have this weird feeling he just passing time or something. But he was honest with me about "us". I'm just confused now. I have other date options. I liked the guy, now it seems he just can't move forward and I'm not waiting. Two days left for him to mention something. I do my own thing, I'm not clingy, and I just don't want to waste my time here. lately he has some issues but its really been far too long for me to wait for him. What do you all think?
loveslife Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 Never wait for someone. Move on. Seriously. You've already wasted enough time. A guy needs to prove himself worthy of you, not the other way around.
xpaperxcutx Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 If you have to coerce a person to be in a relationship with you then you're better off being by yourself. Nobody needs to be convinced in matters of the heart, and you'll wasting your time if you have to talk to him about taking the next step.
Author Lucky555 Posted September 7, 2009 Author Posted September 7, 2009 well i didnt have to convince him, but your both right i shouldn't be "waiting". This is the second chance for the guy and we were both happy talking and stuff. Now its like why didn't he set a date? No excuses. I'm back to moving on. the fact we both said we would be honest with each other kills me because i feel like im doing something wrong but im not.
sugarmomma Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 I say go with your gut on this one. Drop him. He's not showing enough interest in getting to know you.
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