bluewolf17 Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 have you heard of the shocker... you can't really ask before doing that one... thats why they call it the shocker :laugh:priceless..
SoulSearch_CO Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 When I made this thread I was more talking about the risks of offending a person and not getting more dates or at minimum pissing them off. Is it risky to tittie F a girl? Oooooohhhhhh. Well, it will depend on each individual girl. Some have more freak in them than others. You just kind of have to get a feel for what they're into. And I don't understand why it's called the shocker. Doesn't strike ME as all that shocking. But then - I tend more towards the "freak" end of the spectrum.
New Again Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 you missed the point I'm trying to make with this thread/\ yes of course ask but it doesn't change what you'd expect to hear a yes to and a no too. have you heard of the shocker... you can't really ask before doing that one... thats why they call it the shocker Don't ask, just be suave. Get her on top. Start massaging her butt (or whatever), and as your hands/fingers get closer, if she's uncomfortable, she'll smack your hands away = it's risky to forge ahead. If she's cool with it, she'll let you. Not everything has to be a conversation. Minor butt play? Eh. Titty-fing? Eh. Introducing a third party to the bedroom? Probably needs a conversation.
New Again Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 For me, risky sex might be: - no brainer things (refusing to use condoms) - excusing yourself to the bathroom to change into something more comfortable and coming out wearing a rubber mask - asking to wear (and stretch out ) my panties - laughing at my sexy strip tease dance moves
GorillaTheater Posted September 7, 2009 Posted September 7, 2009 - excusing yourself to the bathroom to change into something more comfortable and coming out wearing a rubber mask My wife hates it when I do that.
Author Green Posted September 8, 2009 Author Posted September 8, 2009 For me, risky sex might be: - no brainer things (refusing to use condoms) - excusing yourself to the bathroom to change into something more comfortable and coming out wearing a rubber mask - asking to wear (and stretch out ) my panties - laughing at my sexy strip tease dance moves First off I think its way hotter when the girl wheres a funny outfit or something. Second I'll use condoms if I have to but believe me honey sex without them is way better. Finaly I never laugh at a girls sexy dances or what ever. Do you think it would be going to far if a guy wanted you to sit on his face
New Again Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 First off I think its way hotter when the girl wheres a funny outfit or something. Second I'll use condoms if I have to but believe me honey sex without them is way better. Finaly I never laugh at a girls sexy dances or what ever. Do you think it would be going to far if a guy wanted you to sit on his face Is there something about this move that I'm not getting? Someone else has mentioned this to me (in a similar fashion as you're bringing it up), and since I fail to see what the big deal is, I'm wondering what I'm missing? I'd say just go for it - ie, try to maneuver her into that position. It's only risky if you keep trying/insisting after she stops you or moves out of it. My current bf tried a couple questionable things the first time we hooked up and it didn't affect how I saw him, or his chances with me... ** The condom thing would be a huge turn off for me though. Nothing pisses me off more when a guy who is not a bf tries and/or insists on NOT wearing one, or tries to convince a girl otherwise. It's much sexier if he just assumes he should wear one, and just puts it on, no discussion. It implies that he's ALWAYS safe, which is way hotter than being turned off thinking ew what I get from him.
bac Posted September 8, 2009 Posted September 8, 2009 It is very nice to be creative, but do not be too creative too early. Let her get to know you during the first intercourses. Women are normally uncomfortable with any extreems including even oral sex during the first intercourse. Let her feel comfortable with you and trust you. Unless she is very comfortable having sex and doing anything right away. I guess to ask her is a good idea. But, you may do something without asking her if you can sense that she is enjoying that.
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