djo Posted September 6, 2009 Posted September 6, 2009 This is only my 2nd relationship, and in my first one I was stable in what I wanted. I was dating this girl for a couple months and we had a rocky start but it got better. I broke it off a week ago. I find myself one day feeling really into the relationship, getting butterflys, and then other times just not feeling anything for her. This is a back and forth process of being sure of everything, to doubting everything, sometimes even from one moment to another. Last night we went out to the movies and I was so happy to see her again even though it had only been a week, and during the movie I even wondered if I was doing the right thing!
missdependant Posted September 6, 2009 Posted September 6, 2009 Sounds like you have some issues to work out, before committing to anything with anyone. You're only going to confuse the girl with your behavior. If you are too wishy washy to decide now, then back out of it. Sounds like something happened in your last relationship? You might need to start looking for closure with that FIRST.. if not, just enjoy being single for a while.
Author djo Posted September 6, 2009 Author Posted September 6, 2009 Yes a lot did but that relationship is never on my mind. That is why I backed out of the relationship last week, and last night I just suggested dating for fun. Just going out every now and then. Rather than spending every day together, at each others homes etc. But the problem is I dont know whats wrong. Do you think it's just that we arent right for eachother? We have great chemistry but maybe we arent compatible. Music, TV shows, Movies, Sports, Food we dont have very much in common at all, and music is one of the biggest and most important aspects of my life as I play write and record it. Also I am 20, and she is 24 and we both have identified that fact giving us both reservations on the relationship.
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