ShatteredSsunset Posted September 6, 2009 Posted September 6, 2009 Alright, my situation is kind of complicated. My bf broke it off with me 2 weeks ago. After he broke it off with me, he still hung around with me a couple times, and things didn't stay how exs should. He's been going through a lot of stuff with his mother and 2 family members who he was close to passing away in 2 weeks of eachother, financial issues, diving time between his family, friend, job and i. Now i know i'm not perfect, i still have my own issues to work out and i learned a lot from him. Things seemed to be okay between us after the break up, still talking, not about our relationship, but other things, i wasn't going to push getting back together so soon. Here's where it gets really complicated, the day he came over we ended up being the alone (i live with my family) and i wasn't expecting that, needless to say, stuff happened, we weren't thinking and didn't use any protection, just the pull out method, but here's the thing, we did it more than once. I realized we did a really stupid thing by not using any protection at all. About 3 days later my friend helped me out and figured out my ovulation time, and the day we did it, was the highest risk day. So i ended up telling him their could be a chance i could be pregnant. That was a bad idea, he ignored me all day at work(we work together, how we met) but still gave me a ride home when i didn't ask him. I won't know until this week when i can take a hpt. The thing is, if i am, he's the kind of guy that would stay with me because of the baby. if i'm not, then should i just give up? I really don't want too, i know we were great together, yeah, every couple has issues, we didn't fight every week. we were the couple that talked stuff out that was bothering us, well, i was working on it, but we never yelled at eachother. It just sucks, cause we got along so well and he talked about the future with me all the time. ANY advice to think about will help.
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